How To Protect Yourself Against The Envy Of Others
Revival Tract Ministries Inc
By Dr. James. A McBean. D.Th., MCC
Copyright © 2008 Library of Congress Washington.D.C.20559
I Must warn you that you cannot fight envy on your own. You will need Devine help. Because, sometime the person that envied you is your very "right hand man." It is easier for an envious person to jump off the Delaware Memorial Bridge than to admit to envying. Envy can dig in deeper than tick. An envious person will poison you, lied on you, spread rumors about you and even use their keys to mark up your new car. They will even step on your dung, as if they are stepping on a roach if they know it come from you. The three first visible signs of envy are “sarcasm, go to hell looks, and cold shoulder.
The only way to survive among envious people is what I am going to teach you in this article. I do not come across anybody that suffers among envious people as I do. When I came into the United States. My English was so poor. They give me a translator at emigration. Today I am holding a Doctoral degree. Many people already stop talking to me.
Be Able To Pick Upon Envy In People Quickly
When you have talent, grace, style and charisma. You stand out like flies on a horse's tail. An envious person can pick you out within five second. Pick you out, hate you, and do not like your spirit. Also goes on to plan your down fall, all within five to ten minutes, of seeing you for the first time. I went into a certain store to buy gas. The attendant was a young black girl. She took my money but refuses to turn the pump on. During the conversation, she told me that she does not like Jamaicans. My pants were up at my waist and properly belted, it did not drop down so people could see my backside, so she assumed me to be a Jamaican.
Once envy is discovered, there is little that the person can do to you; however, that little is like a nightmare. You must be able to walk into a room and pick upon envy before you step out. You must be able to catch envy from it was just conceive in the spirit of the person. It remains their eating away at them, and getting worst as the day goes by. If you only know envy when the people begin to act it out, you are months too late. He is acting it out now, because he is making progress in bringing you down. He convinced others that there is something wrong with you. Your success has gone to your head and that you are wearing your backside upon your shoulder. He or she is passing on the offence, and is turning others into a vampire of hate all around you.
You Must Never Help A Person If You Can Prove That He Or She Envies You
Robert Greene in his book. The 48 Laws of power. Page 408. Do not try to do favors for those who envy you; they will think you are condescending to them.” Helping someone that envies you only make the envy got worst, because now they owe you something for helping them and that is intolerable to them.
Envy also has a disguise. You have to be able to pull the panties off envy in disguise, to see the stink. I found out that to really catch envious people you have to be paranoid, as hell. Sometime being paranoid will save your life. One man I know was so paranoid that he went back to his place of business and lacked himself in. Later in the night, it was his best friends and best employs that came in to rob the store. Had he came out of hiding he would have been killed in his own store. Mr. Greene says in his book. Excessive praises. Slap on the back is softening you up for the knife. Slander, and criticism is coming from an envious person, you should not take to heart, because nothing coming from such people are true. Envy can be seen in people eyes, right behind their dark glasses, it can be heard in their words. Both love, envy and hate can be seen in the eyes, in the actions, in questions, in sarcasm. When the envious person is asking questions to show you up, you need to ask. What is the reason behind these series of questioning?
Do you know the answers to the questions you are asking? He or she will reply. Had I know them I would not be asking them your reply. I am quite surprise that someone of your standing does not know this simple first grader answer? You have to crush them with intelligence. Give them nothing to crow about. Again, whenever it is convenient to you give them a bad pronunciation or a bad grammar to feed off. Then knock the wind out of them by correcting it in the other sentence.
Do you know the answers to the questions you are asking? He or she will reply. Had I know them I would not be asking them your reply. I am quite surprise that someone of your standing does not know this simple first grader answer? You have to crush them with intelligence. Give them nothing to crow about. Again, whenever it is convenient to you give them a bad pronunciation or a bad grammar to feed off. Then knock the wind out of them by correcting it in the other sentence.
Out Rank And Out Degree Them.
To really put the crushing blow upon envious people is to continually going forwards with your education. If you cannot out rank them on the job, you can out degree, in other fields. Sometime these dig in deep on the job, and control management so you will not get any advancement. However that does not prevent you from out degree them. If they cut you out of the school system, go to school online.
Find Ways To Keep Envious People That Are Above You From Getting Under Your Skin
An envious person is not going to speak to the person he or she envied peaceably. Make your conversation short as possible when dealing with the person who envied you. If they are above you on the job, do everything by the book. Try to avoid them from coming to speak to you.
Do not show any sign of fear, you only do not want to have a conversation with such a person.
Genesis 37:4 (KJV) And when his brethren saw that their father loved him more than all his brethren, they hated him, and could not speak peaceably unto him.
The feelings that someone else is more intelligent than we are is almost in- tolerable. We usually try to justify it in different ways: He only has book knowledge, whereas I have real knowledge.
The feelings that someone else is more intelligent than we are is almost in- tolerable. We usually try to justify it in different ways: He only has book knowledge, whereas I have real knowledge.
Avoid Letting Envious People Know Your Real Plan
Never seek confrontation or attention. Be able to disarm an envious person.
Never be so foolish as to believe that you are stirring up admiration by flaunting the qualities that raise you above others. By making others aware of their inferior position, you are only stirring up Unhappy admiration, or envy, which will gnaw away at them until they undermine you in ways you cannot foresee. By Robert Greene.
It is never easy to hide success. It is almost impossible. How can an educated person hide it? How can a person perform less than their training? You took your training so you can win, why should you lose just to make an envious person stop being envious of you? The secret is to be able to identified envy before it strikes.
Hide Your Success If You Can
It is good wisdom to hide your success, until you are, out of reach of those who envy you. Envious people go looking for something to be envious for. Successes have a way to show up in the clothing that we wear. Be careful how you out dress, those above you, or those who is a friend of those above you.
Be Able To See Envy At Unfolding Itself
A friend of mine who are very paranoid, say he would want to drop that attitude, since it offends others, but many time it save him. He thinks the snake he hang around was dead; actually, they were only playing possum and waiting for the right moment to strike.
Run Fast And Run Far
Proverbs 27:4 (KJV) Wrath is cruel, and anger is outrageous; but who is able to stand before envy?
James 3:16 (KJV) For where envying and strife is, there is confusion and every evil work.
Sometime Only Jesus Can Help Us
Acts 4:12 (KJV)Neither is there salvation in any other: for there is none other name under heaven given among men, whereby we must be saved.
Romans 5:6 (KJV) For when we were yet without strength, in due time Christ died for the ungodly. Romans 5:7 (KJV) For scarcely for a righteous man will one die: yet peradventure for a good man some would even dare to die. Romans 5:8 (KJV) But God commendeth his love toward us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us. Romans 5:9 (KJV) Much more then, being now justified by his blood, we shall be saved from wrath through him. Romans 5:10 (KJV) For if, when we were enemies, we were reconciled to God by the death of his Son, much more, being reconciled, we shall be saved by his life. Romans 5:11 (KJV) And not only so, but we also joy in God through our Lord Jesus Christ, by whom we have now received the atonement.
Matthew 6:33-AV But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you.
Isaiah 55:6-AV Seek ye the LORD while he may be found, call ye upon him, while he is near: Isaiah 55:7-AV Let the wicked forsake his way, and the unrighteous man his thoughts: and let him return unto the LORD, and he will have mercy upon him; and to our God, for he will abundantly pardon.
The Bearer's Of The "Mind Sword"
