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CHRISTIANS SINGLE WOMEN WHO WANTING TO GET MARRY.

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Copyright C 1998 by J.A.Mcbean. Library of Congress Washington.D.C.20559

INTRODUCTION.

You walk into a church that has one hundred people in it, some of the time only ten married. The other ninety stay there and sometime dried out on the shelves. This is a visual bad testimonies for the new breed of Christians women who wanting to serve the lord. Can’t the lord provide husbands for these women? “Am I going to stay here and turn an old maid and dried out on the shelves like these?” The lord does not hand pick Christians mate for them. That is something you and I will have to do on our own.

GOD WILLS IS FOR YOU TO HAVE ALL BLESSING AND A FULFILLED LIFE.

3 John 1:2 (KJV) Beloved, I wish above all things that thou mayest prosper and be in health, even as thy soul prospereth.

1 Tim. 5:14 (KJV) I will therefore that the younger women marry, bear children, guide the house, give none occasion to the adversary to speak reproachfully.

ONLY FEW WOMEN CAN COUNCIL WOMEN.

“Sirach 42:13. For just as moths comes from garments, so harm to women comes from women” The New American Bible. Saint Joseph Edition. Page 812.

Women in many cases cannot instruct women in a woman and man relationship. When a woman is having a spousal problem and goes to another let down woman for consultations, there is no way she can get any thing to help her with her trouble. Bias-ness always step in and the woman seeking the information is send off with something that make her feel good but did not give her a penny worth of help. Only a man can instruct a woman, only another man knows what a another man is thinking. Women do not know, they boasted that they know, but they do not. They do not have a clue what going on in a man’s mind. Most of the time the woman giving the council only poison the other woman’s mind, and mess up her emotions, and Fill her with wrong concepts.

Exodus 1:17-21 (KJV) However, the midwives feared God, and did not as the king of Egypt commanded them, but saved the men children alive. [18] And the king of Egypt called for the midwives, and said unto them, Why have ye done this thing, and have saved the men children alive? [19] And the midwives said unto Pharaoh, Because the Hebrew women are not as the Egyptian women; for they are lively, and are delivered ere the midwives come in unto them. [20] Therefore God dealt well with the midwives: and the people multiplied, and waxed very mighty. [21] And it came to pass, because the midwives feared God, that he made them houses.

Many Christian women think it is unsanctified to seek a man, or to give signals to a man. Flirting is seeing as a lack of faith. God gave the promise land to the children of Israel, but the children of Israel have to go in and drive out the giants that were living in that land. God gave the children of Israel the manner from heaven but the children of Israel have to go out and collect it daily. God gave the children of Israel the quails, but the children of Israel have to catch them, kill them, and prepare it for eating. God have husbands for all single Christian’s women, but the women will have to do their own flirting and courtship, God is not going to do it for any of us. Some of the time, you have to go out and win the man to Christ, get him baptized, then win him for an husband. You will have to bring in ten to get one, because as you bring in one, another sister take him away.

I AM MARRIED TO JESUS”

I took my favorite sister in law to a church dinner. Across from the table from us was a Spanish man who could not take his eyes of her. I told the man in his language that the woman is my sister in law. I leave the table for about one hour, to give him the chance to chat with her. I came back just in time to hear him pop the question. My sister in law told him that she is married to Jesus. The man countenance fell and he look very disappointed. She blew it.

When a woman told a man that she is married to Jesus, do you know what is going through that man’s mind? How he process that statement. The man thinks the woman is saying that she do not interested in a relationship or a marriage, she is contended with her religious life and do not want a man. “Buzz off” That is what men think. Do not say things like that to people, because Jesus does not have a wife. The church is going to be the bride of Christ after the rapture of the church, but not now.

“FAITH IS NOT GOOD LUCK”

What some Christians call faith is just good luck, if there is such a thing. Faith is not sit down and waiting for things to happen. It is not good intentions or long waiting. Faith is base on a principle.

“COUNTING THE COST”

Luke 14:28-32 (KJV) For which of you, intending to build a tower, smiteth not down first, and counted the cost, whether he have sufficient to finish it? [29] Lest haply, after he hath laid the foundation, and is not able to finish it, all that behold it begin to mock him, [30] Saying, This man began to build, and was not able to finish. [31] Or what king, going to make war against another king, sitteth not down first, and consulteth whether he be able with ten thousand to meet him that cometh against him with twenty thousand? [32] Or else, while the other is yet a great way off, he sendeth an ambassage, and desireth conditions of peace.

It is not a lack of faith to lay the foundations work, to count the cost, and to set up yourself so as to be able to attract a man.

Some men are not going make the first move, because they are afraid they might get swat like a fly. Most en is afraid of picking up a sexual harassment charge, so the women have to make the first move, if they want things to happen.

THIS IS IT

The Bible say that men look an the outward appearances, The first two test a woman get when she meet a man who interested in her are the “look test and the smell test". The look test has to do with her mouth and rotten teeth. The look test also has to do with her rear end. Some men want to see some meat back there. She must have something good going on back there. No plastic thing but for real.

The smell test has to do with how she carries herself. After she passes these two tests, only she, her family, and friends can drive away the man now.

MEN LOOK ON THE OUTSIDE APPEARANCES.

1 Samuel 16:7 (KJV) : -- for the Lord seeth not as man seeth; for man looketh on the outward appearance, but the Lord looketh on the heart.

If the outside APPEARANCES are not good, the woman will not get the chance to prove to the man what she got on the inside of her. Looks are important, but looks alone will not land this fish.

HAVING A NEED FOR A MAN.

Even before you begin to seek a man, you must first have a need for a man that matches his need for a woman. Most men in my opinion greatest need for a woman are companionship including sex. If you the woman only have a money and an emotional need for a man, do not bother seek. You have to have a lot of fire in your pants, to keep a man in there.

SUCCESS IS NOT AN ACCIDENT.

Success do not come by an accident, it came by calculated actions. When I just was saved, I heard all kind of argument on how to go about finding a spouse. None of which make any sense. Countless number of Christians makes wrong choice each year in these arias of their lives. One of the greatest reasons why they make so many mistakes can be summarize in one sentence. “Knowing the will of God” Every Christian I came across in those early days. As soon as the subject of marriage comes, up. The first sentence that they shouted out “You know the will of God for your life?

WHAT IS THE WILL OF GOD?

The will of God for every believer is that we all come of age spiritually. Is that we all conform to the image of Jesus Christ. The will of God for his people is that we prosper, and being in good health. The will of God for young women in the Church is they married and bear children.

1 Timothy 5:14-AV I will therefore that the younger women marry, bear children, guide the house, give none occasion to the adversary to speak reproachfully.

The will of God is that you seek a spouse. Under line, the word seeks. However, we should come of spiritual age first before we started to seek. We should purge our soul of all covetous actions, rebelliousness, spites, because these will prevent us from seeing the good qualities in people, and cause us to making bad choices and get stuck up with an immature believer, and unsaved Christians.

HOW CAN A WOMAN KNOW IF IT IS THE WILL OF GOD FOR HER TO MARRY?

Are you lonely? Do you feel like you want to have sex? Would you like to have children? Having a family of your own? Do you want a man to talk to when you go home in the night? If the answer is yes, then it is the will of God for you. God is a family person. God is a children lover. God is a God of sex. Even the mosquitoes and flies do their thing when nature calls. And the female mosquitoes make a lot of noise when she wants to do her thing. If God give you the gifts, to have the need for a man, then he wants you to have a family of your own.

GOD DO NOT DO CHRISTIANS COURTSHIP FOR THEM.

God say “Psalms 32:9-AV Be ye not as the horse, [or] as the mule, [which] have no understanding: whose mouth must be held in with bit and bridle-.

NEVER MARRY OUR OF YOUR RANK AND CALLING.

2 Cor. 6:14 (KJV) Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion hath light with darkness?

Amos 3:3 (KJV) Can two walk together, except they be agreed?

Watch this. Did you know that two genuinely born again Christians could be unequally yoked? You cannot marry someone that have the pastoral gift to someone that is called to be a missionary and have it work, the pastor always wanting to stay when the missionary wanting to go. They might agree on doctrines and agree that they love each other. But will never agree when to move on or when to stay. You have to first find out from the lord what your calling are, and seek a mate with the same calling. Calling = I mean ministry. Conflicting calling and conflicting personality is the down fall of many a Christians marriage.

In love does not necessarily mean you are the one for me and me and you can get along. That is why you have to learn the scriptures, learn to fallow the leading of the Holy Spirit and learn about people. Not because you see a person jumping and crying out in the church, sometime that is most miserable person in the whole church.

1 Cor. 12:28 (KJV) And God hath set some in the church, first apostles, secondarily prophets, thirdly teachers, after that miracles, then gifts of healings, helps, governments, diversities of tongues.

Ephes. 4:11 (KJV) And he gave some, apostles; and some, prophets; and some, evangelists; and some, pastors and teachers;

KEEPING THE MAN FROM LEAVING.

The outside appearances are what bring the man in, but the outside appearances cannot keep the man. This is where women made their biggest mistakes. When their husbands are not happy they would go out and get a $400 make up. Then go home looking very pretty but with the same problems.

THIS IS WHAT THE BIBLE SAID.

Titus 2:3-5 (KJV) The aged women likewise, that they be in behaviour as becometh holiness, not false accusers, not given to much wine, teachers of good things;

[4] That they may teach the young women to be sober, to love their husbands, to love their children, [5] To be discreet, chaste, keepers at home, good, obedient to their own husbands, that the word of God be not blasphemed. )( Teach the younger women to be, sober, to love their husbands, to love their children, to be discrete, chaste, good housekeeper, and be obedient to their husbands.

SOBER MINDED.

1 Tim. 3:11 (KJV) Even so must their wives be grave, not slanderers, sober, faithful in all things.

5. Marked by seriousness, gravity, or solemnity of conduct or character.

1 Peter 3:1-7 (KJV) Likewise, ye wives, be in subjection to your own husbands; that, if any obey not the word, they also may without the word be won by the conversation of the wives; [2] While they behold your chaste conversation coupled with fear. [3] Whose adorning let it not be that outward adorning of plaiting the hair, and of wearing of gold, or of putting on of apparel; [4] But let it be the hidden man of the heart, in that which is not corruptible, even the ornament of a meek and quiet spirit, which is in the sight of God of great price. [5] For after this manner in the old time the holy women also, who trusted in God, adorned themselves, being in subjection unto their own husbands: [6] Even as Sarah obeyed Abraham, calling him lord: whose daughters ye are, as long as ye do well, and are not afraid with any amazement.

IF THE HUSBAND IS PUSHED INTO MISTREATING HIS WIFE HIS PRAYERS WILL BE HINDERED.

In other word, nothing you both try to do will come to any success.

[7] Likewise, ye husbands, dwell with them according to knowledge, giving honour unto the wife, as unto the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life; that your prayers be not hindered.

HOW THE BIBLE SAID THE MARRIAGE MUST GO.

1 Cor. 7:1-5 (KJV) Now concerning the things whereof ye wrote unto me: It is good for a man not to touch a woman.

[2] Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband.

[3] Let the husband render unto the wife due benevolence: and likewise also the wife unto the husband.

[4] The wife hath not power of her own body, but the husband: and likewise also the husband hath not power of his own body, but the wife.

[5] Defraud ye not one the other, except it be with consent for a time, that ye may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again, that Satan tempt you not for your incontinency.

CHRISTIANS RUN AWAY FROM SEX LIKE A RAT RUNNING FROM A SNAKE.

Christians run away from sex and leave it give to ungodly people. When some Christian men saw a vagina by accident, they went home and fasting and pray to death.

Sexuality is a natural part of human existence, and should not be isolated and handles in the way we do, simple because of what it is; in fact all of us are here because of sex. If somebody did not get the sexual urges and act upon it, earth would not have replenished it self, so often as it did after two world wars and so many battles, death and destructions, also many out brakes of diseases, famines, and earthquakes.

This is one of the doctrines that is most mist understand in the Bible, and there are very few doctrines like the doctrine of sex, in fact it is the only teaching that has never been fully expound on by the Church, you hear very little about sex from the pulpit, and whenever you hear any thing it is always in the negative, with some blood and hell fire attach to it, people talk about sex in a hush, hush kind of way, it is look down upon as the great sin, people in the church think that they are saved because they have not indulged in sexual practice.

It is the only doctrine that is left up to the ungodly people to teach. Everybody who has the gift or the need for sex participates in the act some way or another, but no body is willing to say yes we do. Because of the mentalities that have surrounded sex, many people do not know the right and wrong about sex, even among some people who are married; they still feel guilty when they participate in sexual activity. But a careful and intelligent study of the Bible is the only way to determine the right wrong about sex.

God himself has invented sex, for the continuing of the human race. God told Adam and Eve to multiply and replenish the Earth, back then the only way they know how to continue the human race was by the good old fashion sex.

Genesis 1:26-AV And God said, Let us make man

HAVING A PLAN BETWEEN YOU AND YOUR MATE HOW TO DEAL WITH GRIEVANCE.

If you both do not have a plan how to deal with hear says, GRIEVANCE and ill feelings, you will never have a successful or even a working relationship. People have a way to covet other people marital happiness and will do every thing to break you up. They will dig under and dig over until they separate a man and his wife. Sisters in laws and sometime cousin are a great dangers to marriage. If you do not have a plan between you and your spouses how you both are going to deal with hearsay, your love will turn to hate.

The End.

SOMETIME ONLY CHRIST CAN HELP US

Matthew 6:33-AV But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you.

Isaiah 55:6-AV Seek ye the LORD while he may be found, call ye upon him while he is near: Isaiah 55:7-AV Let the wicked forsake his way, and the unrighteous man his thoughts: and let him return unto the LORD, and he will have mercy upon him; and to our God, for he will abundantly pardon.

HOW DOES A PERSON BECOME A CHRISTIANS?

How does a person become a Christian, and are sure that he/she is save? First the person must know that he/she is a sinner and need deliverance from the lord.

Romans 3:23 (KJV) for all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God;

Galatians 3:22 (KJV) But the scripture hath concluded all under sin, that the promise by faith of Jesus Christ might be given to them that believe.

THE SINNER MUST BELIEVE THAT THERE IS A GOD.

Hebrews 11:6 NKJV But without faith it is impossible to please Him, for he who comes to God must believe that He is, and that He is a rewarder of those who diligently seek Him.

THE SINNER MUST BELIEVE THAT GOD IS READY TO FORGIVE HIM.

Isaiah 55:7 (KJV)Let the wicked forsake his way, and the unrighteous man his thoughts: and let him return unto the Lord, and he will have mercy upon him; and to our God, for he will abundantly pardon.

THE SINNER MUST BELIEVE THAT CHRIST DIED FOR HIM.

Romans 5:6 (KJV) For when we were yet without strength, in due time Christ died for the ungodly.

Romans 5:8 (KJV)But God commendeth his love toward us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us.

1 Cor. 15:3-8 (KJV) For I delivered unto you first of all that which I also received, how that Christ died for our sins according to the scriptures; [4] And that he was buried, and that he rose again the third day according to the scriptures: [5] And that he was seen of Cephas, then of the twelve: [6] After that, he was seen of above five hundred brethren at once; of whom the greater part remain unto this present, but some are fallen asleep. [7] After that, he was seen of James; then of all the apostles. [8] And last of all he was seen of me also, as of one born out of due time.

The sinner must believe that God can keep him save.

Ephes. 3:20 (KJV) Now unto him that is able to do exceeding abundantly above all that we ask or think, according to the power that worketh in us,

Jude 1:24 (KJV) Now unto him that is able to keep you from falling, and to present you faultless before the presence of his glory with exceeding joy,

PERFECTING THE SAINTS IS A WORK OF GOD.

1 Peter 5:10 (KJV) But the God of all grace, who hath called us unto his eternal glory by Christ Jesus, after that ye have suffered a while, make you perfect, establish, strengthen, settle you.

THE SINNER MUST KNOW THAT ONLY JESUS CAN SAVE THEM.

Acts 4:12 (KJV) Neither is there salvation in any other: for there is none other name under heaven given among men, whereby we must be saved.

THE SINNER MUST MAKE A DECISION TODAY.

Isaiah 1:18 (KJV) Come now, and let us reason together, saith the Lord: though your sins be as scarlet, they shall be as white as snow; though they be red like crimson, they shall be as wool.

2 Cor. 6:2 (KJV) (For he saith, I have heard thee in a time accepted, and in the day of salvation have I succoured thee: behold, now is the accepted time; behold, now is the day of salvation.)

BOW YOUR HEAD AND PRAY THIS PRAYER.

Lord I am a sinner and need your salvation. Forgive all my sins. I accept your son Jesus as my savior today.

We can sing with the song writer" I rise walk in heaven’s own light above the world and sin with heart made pure and garments white, and Christ en-throned with in. The cleansing stream I see I see I plunge, and O It cleans-eth me. O praise the Lord, it cleans-eth me, it cleans-eth me yes, cleans-eth me."

DROP ALL PRE-CONCEIVE IDEAS OF CHRISTIANITY.

Drop all preconceived ideas of Christianity because these conflict with the reality of Christianity. The lord will live the life through you day by day. You do not drop things from your life on your own. The spirit of God will walk you out of sins in his own time.

FIRST HUMBLING YOU.

Ephes. 2:8-9 (KJV)For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: [9] Not of works, lest any man should boast.

If you stop sins and get holy before God’s timing you will begin to boast how it is your own magnetism got you so far, then you became a source of discouragement to others. Therefore, you are going to stuck upon a sin or two. The sin always getting the better of you. This will push you to always accept God’s grace, and to see your own frailness.

1 John 1:8 (KJV) If we say that we have no sin, we deceive ourselves, and the truth is not in us.

TO CONTINUE GROWING IN GOD.

1 Peter 2:2 (KJV) As newborn babes, desire the sincere milk of the word, that ye may grow thereby:

2 Peter 1:5-10 (NKJV) But also for this very reason, giving all diligence, add to your faith virtue, to virtue knowledge, 6 to knowledge self-control, to self-control perseverance, to perseverance godliness, 7 to godliness brotherly kindness, and to brotherly kindness love. 8 For if these things are yours and abound, you will be neither barren nor unfruitful in the knowledge of our Lord Jesus Christ. 9 For he who lacks these things is shortsighted, even to blindness, and has forgotten that he was cleansed from his old sins. 10 Therefore, brethren, be even more diligent to make your call and election sure, for if you do these things you will never stumble.

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FINDING OUT YOUR CALLING

When I was newly save, the believers always, ask me if I know the will of God for my life! I never really know what they were talking about. Every person that was saved had a mission and a gift. However, because you are just a babe in Christ you do not know any of these. As you go on with the lord his will for you will unfolds day bay day. Do not run off and make any big commitment. Your mate has to be tailor made for you by God. You are now a citizen of heaven. Heaven does not rule by democracy. You cannot serve God with democratic mind set.

WHAT YOU MUST DROP OFF.

Hebrews 12:1 (Living Bible) Since we have such a huge crowd of men of faith watching us from the grandstands, let us strip off anything that slows us down or holds us back, and especially those sins that wrap themselves so tightly around our feet and trip us up; and let us run with patience the particular race that God has set before us.

Ephes. 4:31 (Living Bible) Stop being mean, bad-tempered, and angry. Quarreling, harsh words, and dislike of others should have no place in your lives.

Col. 3:8 (Living Bible) but now is the time to cast off and throw away all these rotten garments of anger, hatred, cursing, and dirty language.

GET A GOOD BIBLE, FIND A GOOD CHURCH.

One of the best Bibles out there is the New King James Version. Dake’s annotated Bible is very good. Next, you need a living bible to make some thing simple.

Hebrews 10:25 (Living Bible) Let us not neglect our church meetings, as some people do, but encourage and warn each other, especially now that the day of his coming back again is drawing near.

DROP THE BAD HABITS.

Drop the smoking, even though we cannot prove it to be a sin. You are going to be sitting down beside other church going people; they do not want to be smelling the odor from smoking on you.

PROTECTING YOURSELF FROM BEING SPOILED BY MAN.

Col. 2:8 (KJV)Beware lest any man spoil you through philosophy and vain deceit, after the tradition of men, after the rudiments of the world, and not after Christ.

Hebrews 13:9 (KJV) Be not carried about with divers and strange doctrines. For it is a good thing that the heart be established with grace; not with meats, which have not profited them that have been occupied therein.

Seven Ways that People Can Spoil Christians:

1. Through philosophy (Col. 2:8)

2. Through vain deceit (Col. 2:4,8,18-19)

3. Through human traditions (Col. 2:8)

4. Through human religion and world principles contrary to the gospel (Col. 2:8,14-23; note, §Galatians 4:3)

5. Through circumcision (Col. 2:11-13; Acts 15:1; Romans 4:9-16; Galatians 5:1-11)

6. Through the law of Moses, demanding observance of the laws on meats, drinks, holy days, new moons, feasts, and sabbaths (Col. 2:14-17)

7. Through cults that puff up and imitate the gospel (Col. 2:18-23)

By all these means, unsuspecting souls are being carried off as plunder and booty by false teachers. The founders of false religions and human philosophies which pamper the flesh and give their victims elated feelings of importance make an appeal to them.

Christianity is loaded down with some false concept. Some little believe system, which are spread by false believers. One of such teaching is that you must “Look like Christians” How does Christians look? Genuine Christianity is not an external thing but of the heart and spirit.

Micah 6:8 (KJV)He hath shewed thee, O man, what is good; and what doth the Lord require of thee, but to do justly, and to love mercy, and to walk humbly with thy God?

When cults capture a newly converted Christians, the cult first job on that new believer is to close their mind. Preventing the new believer from reading any material from other churches. So that new believer will never get out of their trap.

YOUR HORMONE DOES NOT STOP WORKING WITH CHRISTIANITY.

Philip. 3:20-21 (KJV)For our conversation is in heaven; from whence also we look for the Saviour, the Lord Jesus Christ: [21] Who shall change our vile body, that it may be fashioned like unto his glorious body, according to the working whereby he is able even to subdue all things unto himself.

Romans 8:23 (KJV) And not only they, but ourselves also, which have the firstfruits of the Spirit, even we ourselves groan within ourselves, waiting for the adoption, to wit, the redemption of our body.

Our bodies were not save at conversion. The work of redemption took place in your spirit man. Our body will be redeemed at the return of our lord. We are still waiting for the redemption of our body.

According to Philip 3:20-21 and Romans 8:23. You are still going to have urges. You have to present your body to the lord as a living sacrifice. Not dead one. Living sacrifice give trouble, you will have trouble keeping that body tied to the altar. However, as you and I grow in the lord what seem impossible will be quite possible.

Come back for update soon.

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