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"WHERE DO CHILDREN HURT?"

“Wise Men Still Seek Jesus”

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Copyright C 1998 by J.A.Mcbean. Library of Congress Washington.D.C.20559

T t was a good day when I leave my home for work at the hospital that day. Little did I know that it would be one of my longest days. My assignment was to work at a unit call “PEDI” This is the children section of the hospital. The situation I was going to face that day, nothing in my training prepared me for that. A little girl was having serious behavioral problem, every time her stepfather came into the room she freeze up, when he went out of the room, she started to tell her mother what is happening to her.

Her mother instantaneously changes the subject. The mother knows what were happening, but are sacrificing the girl’s life if that will keep the man home. The problem is, how do I report a crime that one parent is committing and the other is condoning? If my suspicions are proven wrong they could have me running up a tree for a long time. Therefore, since the mother cut her own daughter loose, it is best for me to stay out of their purgatives.

CHILDREN ARE HURTING.

Behavioral problem such as “ Bullying, withdrawal and eating disorder are all signs of what a child is going through at home. Learning disabilities, bed wetting and stuttering all part of problem at home. If the abusive parents were religious, the child will take the hate out on the God of those religions or on the religions itself. Many Bible hates have religious parents. Many Christian’ haters have Christians parents who were molesting them in childhood. Childhood is the best part of children life and when that part is taking from them, it is gone for good and not coming back. Problems in adulthood have it root in abuse and molestation in childhood. Women hating men, and cannot get along with them under any conditions has it roots in molestation in childhood.

INDISPUTABLE DANGER SIGNS.

Blood in the child underwear. The boy child at certain age is going to the toilet on himself. This is what one victim told me, happen to her since I first publish this article. My sister was rape by our mother’s boy friend and she never overcame it until the day of her death. She was never able to hold a marriage or a relationship together.

THE REASON FOR THIS ARTICLE.

Children are hurting. One or both parents know about it and are not doing any thing about it. Medical professionals sometime know about it and are scared to put their profession on the line base on suspicions. People do not trust the system that is set up. Now what is your suggestion on dealing with this problem? How do we tear down his cabins and release his victims?

In the book caring for God’s, people God's way. BICO 106. By Dr. Diane Langberg. The American Association of Christians Counselors. AACC. P.O Box 739 Forest, Virginia 24551

2. "Usually offenders have easy, private access to the child (family member, teacher, camp counselor, etc.). Usually 1 of 6 boys and 1 of 4 girls will become victims of sexual abuse. Offenses usually occur between the ages of 6 and 12. Usually repeated offenses are stored in a way the victim is unable to remember later in life.

6. Usually offenders are older males.

7. Not all victims suffer the same way—each story is unique.

II. How Does Sexual Abuse Affect Victims?

A. Factors Increasing the Severity of the After Affects:

1. Greater Frequency and Duration of the Offenses

2. The More Closely Related the Perpetrator is to the Victim

3. Wider Age Difference between Perpetrator and Victim

4. Abuse Involving Penetration of Any Kind

c. Being vulnerable is dangerous.

d. Pretending is good.

e. "I am not worth anything."

3. after Effects of Childhood Sexual Abuse on the Adult's Mind:

a. Physical - Victims hate their bodies and have self-destructive tendencies (eating disorders; addictions to food, drugs, sex; suicidal tendencies; self-mutilating tendencies).

b. Emotional - Victims suffer from anger, fear, overwhelming guilt, or numbness (turn off emotions to cope). c. Cognitive - Victims usually think "I am worthless," "God is not good," "God does not protect children," "God is not real."

d. Relational - Victims have been taught betrayal, rejection, humiliation, abandonment, deceit—therefore, it is impossible (or at least foolish) for them to trust"

COMMENTS MADE BY CHILDREN ARE NOT TO BE TAKING LIGHTLY.

“Grandpa hurt my hinny” ”Uncle kissed me” “Touches me here” “Papa make me look at his” “Uncle make me touch his” Sometime a comment are planted by a disgruntle mother, even so a comment must be investigate.

UNENTIONAL ABUSE OF CHILDREN.

Fights between mother and father, argumentative parents. Parents taking illegal drugs in the children present. Mother being beaten before children will cause a child to grow up angry. If the father is the beater, the child will refuse to hate the father, but take that aggression out on other children at school. If he/she withheld and hide those emotions, it will come out in their relationship in adulthood.

SOCIAL WORKERS FOR CHILDREN OF PROBLEM HOMES.

There should be social workers assigned to children of broken home, battered wife and run away fathers. Children should have some rights too. Children with behavioral problems as school should definitely have social workers assigned to them. Especially children who are bullies. We can sing with the song writer

“Children, give them all to Jesus, he has come today, do it now without delay, Children, give them all to Jesus, he has come to take their sins away”

SOMETIME ONLY JESUS CAN HELP US:

Matthew 6:33-AV But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you.

Isaiah 55:6-AV Seek ye the LORD while he may be found, call ye upon him while he is near: Isaiah 55:7-AV Let the wicked forsake his way, and the unrighteous man his thoughts: and let him return unto the LORD, and he will have mercy upon him; and to our God, for he will abundantly pardon.

LOOK AT THE BENEFITS OF BECOMING A CHRISTIAN:

How does a person become a Christian, and are sure that he/she is save? First the person must know that he/she is a sinner and need deliverance from the lord.

Romans 3:23 (KJV) for all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God;

Galatians 3:22 (KJV) But the scripture hath concluded all under sin, that the promise by faith of Jesus Christ might be given to them that believe.

THE SINNER MUST BELIEVE THAT THERE IS A GOD:

Hebrews 11:6 NKJV But without faith it is impossible to please Him, for he who comes to God must believe that He is, and that He is a rewarder of those who diligently seek Him.

THE SINNER MUST BELIEVE THAT GOD IS READY TO FORGIVE HIM:

Isaiah 55:7 (KJV)Let the wicked forsake his way, and the unrighteous man his thoughts: and let him return unto the Lord, and he will have mercy upon him; and to our God, for he will abundantly pardon.

THE SINNER MUST BELIEVE THAT CHRIST DIED FOR HIM:

Romans 5:6 (KJV) For when we were yet without strength, in due time Christ died for the ungodly.

Romans 5:8 (KJV)But God commendeth his love toward us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us.

1 Cor. 15:3-8 (KJV) For I delivered unto you first of all that which I also received, how that Christ died for our sins according to the scriptures; [4] And that he was buried, and that he rose again the third day according to the scriptures: [5] And that he was seen of Cephas, then of the twelve: [6] After that, he was seen of above five hundred brethren at once; of whom the greater part remain unto this present, but some are fallen asleep. [7] After that, he was seen of James; then of all the apostles. [8] And last of all he was seen of me also, as of one born out of due time.

MUST BELIEVE THAT GOD CAN KEEP HIM:

Ephes. 3:20 (KJV) Now unto him that is able to do exceeding abundantly above all that we ask or think, according to the power that worketh in us,

Jude 1:24 (KJV) Now unto him that is able to keep you from falling, and to present you faultless before the presence of his glory with exceeding joy,

PERFECTING THE SAINTS IS A WORK OF GOD:

1 Peter 5:10 (KJV) But the God of all grace, who hath called us unto his eternal glory by Christ Jesus, after that ye have suffered a while, make you perfect, establish, strengthen, settle you.

THE SINNER MUST KNOW THAT ONLY JESUS CAN SAVE THEM:

Acts 4:12 (KJV) Neither is there salvation in any other: for there is none other name under heaven given among men, whereby we must be saved.

THE SINNER MUST MAKE A DECISION TODAY:

Isaiah 1:18 (KJV) Come now, and let us reason together, saith the Lord: though your sins be as scarlet, they shall be as white as snow; though they be red like crimson, they shall be as wool.

2 Cor. 6:2 (KJV) (For he saith, I have heard thee in a time accepted, and in the day of salvation have I succoured thee: behold, now is the accepted time; behold, now is the day of salvation.)

BOW YOUR HEAD AND PRAY THIS PRAYER:

Lord I am a sinner and need your salvation. Forgive all my sins. I accept your son Jesus as my savior today.

We can sing with the song writer" I rise walk in heaven’s own light above the world and sin with heart made pure and garments white, and Christ en-throned with in. The cleansing stream I see I see I plunge, and O It cleans-eth me. O praise the Lord, it cleans-eth me, it cleans-eth me yes, cleans-eth me."

DROP ALL PRE-CONCEIVE IDEAS OF CHRISTIANITY:

Drop all preconceived ideas of Christianity because these conflict with the reality of Christianity. The lord will live the life through you day by day. You do not drop things from your life on your own. The spirit of God will walk you out of sins in his own time.

FIRST HUMBLING YOU:

Ephes. 2:8-9 (KJV)For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: [9] Not of works, lest any man should boast.

If you stop sins and get holy before God’s timing you will begin to boast how it is your own magnetism got you so far, then you became a source of discouragement to others. Therefore, you are going to stuck upon a sin or two. The sin always getting the better of you. This will push you to always accept God’s grace, and to see your own frailness.

1 John 1:8 (KJV) If we say that we have no sin, we deceive ourselves, and the truth is not in us.

TO CONTINUE GROWING IN GOD:

1 Peter 2:2 (KJV) As newborn babes, desire the sincere milk of the word, that ye may grow thereby:

2 Peter 1:5-10 (NKJV) But also for this very reason, giving all diligence, add to your faith virtue, to virtue knowledge, 6 to knowledge self-control, to self-control perseverance, to perseverance godliness, 7 to godliness brotherly kindness, and to brotherly kindness love. 8 For if these things are yours and abound, you will be neither barren nor unfruitful in the knowledge of our Lord Jesus Christ. 9 For he who lacks these things is shortsighted, even to blindness, and has forgotten that he was cleansed from his old sins. 10 Therefore, brethren, be even more diligent to make your call and election sure, for if you do these things you will never stumble.

FINDING OUT YOUR CALLING:

When I was newly save, the believers always, ask me if I know the will of God for my life! I never really know what they were talking about. Every person that was saved had a mission and a gift. However, because you are just a babe in Christ you do not know any of these. As you go on with the lord his will for you will unfolds day bay day. Do not run off and make any big commitment. Your mate has to be tailor made for you by God. You are now a citizen of heaven. Heaven does not rule by democracy. You cannot serve God with democratic mind set.

WHAT YOU MUST DROP OFF:

Hebrews 12:1 (Living Bible) Since we have such a huge crowd of men of faith watching us from the grandstands, let us strip off anything that slows us down or holds us back, and especially those sins that wrap themselves so tightly around our feet and trip us up; and let us run with patience the particular race that God has set before us.

Ephes. 4:31 (Living Bible) Stop being mean, bad-tempered, and angry. Quarreling, harsh words, and dislike of others should have no place in your lives.

Col. 3:8 (Living Bible) but now is the time to cast off and throw away all these rotten garments of anger, hatred, cursing, and dirty language.

GET A GOOD BIBLE, AND FIND A GOOD CHURCH:

One of the best Bibles out there is the New King James Version. Dake’s annotated Bible is very good. Next, you need a living bible to make some thing simple.

Hebrews 10:25 (Living Bible) Let us not neglect our church meetings, as some people do, but encourage and warn each other, especially now that the day of his coming back again is drawing near.

PROTECTING YOURSELF FROM BEING SPOILED BY MAN:

Col. 2:8 (KJV)Beware lest any man spoil you through philosophy and vain deceit, after the tradition of men, after the rudiments of the world, and not after Christ.

Hebrews 13:9 (KJV) Be not carried about with divers and strange doctrines. For it is a good thing that the heart be established with grace; not with meats, which have not profited them that have been occupied therein.

Seven Ways that People Can Spoil Christians:

1. Through philosophy (Col. 2:8)

2. Through vain deceit (Col. 2:4,8,18-19)

3. Through human traditions (Col. 2:8)

4. Through human religion and world principles contrary to the gospel (Col. 2:8,14-23; note, §Galatians 4:3)

5. Through circumcision (Col. 2:11-13; Acts 15:1; Romans 4:9-16; Galatians 5:1-11)

6. Through the law of Moses, demanding observance of the laws on meats, drinks, holy days, new moons, feasts, and sabbaths (Col. 2:14-17)

7. Through cults that puff up and imitate the gospel (Col. 2:18-23)

By all these means, unsuspecting souls are being carried off as plunder and booty by false teachers. The founders of false religions and human philosophies which pamper the flesh and give their victims elated feelings of importance make an appeal to them.

Christianity is loaded down with some false concept. Some little believe system, which are spread by false believers. One of such teaching is that you must “Look like Christians” How does Christians look? Genuine Christianity is not an external thing but of the heart and spirit.

Micah 6:8 (KJV)He hath shewed thee, O man, what is good; and what doth the Lord require of thee, but to do justly, and to love mercy, and to walk humbly with thy God?

When cults capture a newly converted Christians, the cult first job on that new believer is to close their mind. Preventing the new believer from reading any material from other churches. So that new believer will never get out of their trap.

YOUR HORMONE DOES NOT STOP WORKING WITH CHRISTIANITY:

Philip. 3:20-21 (KJV)For our conversation is in heaven; from whence also we look for the Saviour, the Lord Jesus Christ: [21] Who shall change our vile body, that it may be fashioned like unto his glorious body, according to the working whereby he is able even to subdue all things unto himself.

Romans 8:23 (KJV) And not only they, but ourselves also, which have the firstfruits of the Spirit, even we ourselves groan within ourselves, waiting for the adoption, to wit, the redemption of our body.

Our bodies were not save at conversion. The work of redemption took place in your spirit man. Our body will be redeemed at the return of our lord. We are still waiting for the redemption of our body.

According to Philip 3:20-21 and Romans 8:23. You are still going to have urges. You have to present your body to the lord as a living sacrifice. Not dead one. Living sacrifice give trouble, you will have trouble keeping that body tied to the altar. However, as you and I grow in the lord what seem impossible will be quite possible.

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