Author Dr. James. A McBean. D.Th., MCC

Copyright © 2008 Library of Congress Washington.D.C.20559

Publisher: Revival Tract Ministries, Inc

A nywhere you find people, you will find competitions: Each of us has been given different qualities, by our redeemer, to help us on our life's journey. We do not have more than the other person, sometime we have the same gifts. This is like a soldier that they both have the same sword, one romance his sword, by keeping it sharpen, and well oiled, while the other person just puts it down to rust. My smaller brother said I am the one in the family with the education, however, I went to piloting school, and did not do too well. However, he can pilot a vessel anywhere on the oceans, and never gone to school for it. I am fanatic about maths, while he can do with the tip of his fingers, so who smarter?

The Art And science Of Mirroring People

People not paying attention to the blessing that is upon them, they are only watching the flies on another person's head. Therefore, they keep measuring themselves against other people, and when they come up short in their own eyes, they quickly put you and I on their shit list. They will walk pass you and pretending that you are a ghost, that is how you must walk pass them. You are not obligated to acknowledge the presence of a person who does not acknowledge yours! He is telling you that he is high and mighty, thinking that he owned the majesty, and you are a shit house! No! You are somebody, and you need to get off his shit list. They are watching you, and you must be watching them as well and watches them even more. He she walked pass like they did not see you, but they did. They saw right down to your shoelace.

Never Make People Know For Sure How Much Of The Language You Know:

In one of the nursing home, I worked, a patient fall off the bed. The Spanish girls that have that patient, call a Jamaican Patient care tech and is sending her in the room. Because any body that find the patient on the ground, will have to fill out a paper, and answer questions. Many of the time I have been saved by that, as an insult, they speak in their language, insulting you right before your faces. Still act as if you do not know, then one day later you told them that you did know what they were saying yesterday, this will show restrain and maturity on your part, to know and keep quiet while showing no facial disturbance, is a cruel blow to the person.

Do Not be Given Your Opinion About People Close Around You:

For example: If you work alongside somebody, do not give your opinions to another worker about another. If it is your manager who want the information to elevate or give the person a raise in pay, give a good report, have a clean conscience toward others. If you work under somebody, always trying to make them look good, whether you like them yes or no. If you are with a woman, during that time treat her like a lady.

Pro 24:17  Rejoice not when thine enemy falleth, and let not thine heart be glad when he stumbleth: Pro 24:18  Lest the LORD see it, and it displease him, and he turn away his wrath from him. Pro 24:19  Fret not thyself because of evil men, neither be thou envious at the wicked; 

Correcting Your English And Downplaying What You Says:

Jdg_9:23  Then God sent an evil spirit between Abimelech and the men of Shechem; and the men of Shechem dealt treacherously with Abimelech:

1Sa_16:15  And Saul's servants said unto him, Behold now, an evil spirit from God troubleth thee.

Sometime it is the will of God that some people act toward a good person the way they do. When I want to talk to a woman, a do not want to see her in a crowd. I want to see her by herself where I can pour out my heart and my feelings toward her. God does not want his people in a crowd always. You will never hear his voice. The topics for all my books and writing came to me when I was by myself, not when I was in a crowd. You will need to know why people are acting the way they do. If every time you talk: Somebody brush it aside, or try to overtake you, or pretending not to hear you. It is because they are having a envy and a grudge thing going on for you. You react to this: By trying to avoid hanging out where they hang out. Keep your nose out of the conversation which they started. Do not hang around where they are feasting. You must be the one that is missing each time. Do not be up in their faces, learn to be a lone wolf.

1Sa 16:14  But the Spirit of the LORD departed from Saul, and an evil spirit from the LORD troubled him.  1Sa 16:15  And Saul's servants said unto him, Behold now, an evil spirit from God troubleth thee.  1Sa 16:16  Let our lord now command thy servants, which are before thee, to seek out a man, who is a cunning player on an harp: and it shall come to pass, when the evil spirit from God is upon thee, that he shall play with his hand, and thou shalt be well.  1Sa 16:17  And Saul said unto his servants, Provide me now a man that can play well, and bring him to me.  1Sa 16:18  Then answered one of the servants, and said, Behold, I have seen a son of Jesse the Bethlehemite, that is cunning in playing, and a mighty valiant man, and a man of war, and prudent in matters, and a comely person, and the LORD is with him. 

Do Not Seek Praises From Men:

Joh 5:41  I receive not honor from men. .

Luk_16:15  And he said unto them, Ye are they which justify yourselves before men; but God knoweth your hearts: for that which is highly esteemed among men is abomination in the sight of God.

The best way to come off people shit list: Is not to be desired praises from them. Do not seek praise, because sometime those phrases are only big you up to cast you down. The praises are intended to give you a swellhead; it is sarcasm at its fullest sense.

Getting off men shit list, take training, and maturity. You have to know when you are on their list, and how to interacted with them. If you as a child of God do not know that you are on their list, they will throw it in your face.

Do Not Live Your Life By Other People Convictions:

Do Not Live Your Life By Other People Convictions: Mat 7:2  For with what judgment ye judge, ye shall be judged: and with what measure ye mete, it shall be measured to you again. 

The people that made up a doctrine and told you that it is God word: Make them live by it, if God gave it to you it is for you. It is a choice, and I take my choice not to live by that concept. You embrace it, you keep it.

  [Judge not, that ye be not judged] Do not find fault with anyone except yourself or you will expose your own criminal tendencies and disposition.

Try Not OT Offend People Purposely:

1Pe_2:17  Honour all men. Love the brotherhood. Fear God. Honor the king.

Rom 13:7  Render therefore to all their dues: tribute to whom tribute is due; custom to whom custom; fear to whom fear; honor to whom honor. 

Rom_12:18  If it be possible, as much as lieth in you, live peaceably with all men.

Heb_12:14  Follow peace with all men, and holiness, without which no man shall see the Lord:

1Th 4:6  That no man go beyond and defraud his brother in any matter: because that the Lord is the avenger of all such, as we also have forewarned you and testified. 

1Th 4:9  But as touching brotherly love ye need not that I write unto you: for ye yourselves are taught of God to love one another.