By Dr. J. A McBean.Th., MCC
Copyright © 2008 Library of Congress
Washington.D.C.20559
I n a certain church the people did not like the Deacon, they say he was too self-righteous. The only way to bring him down to size, is to get his wife away from him. “Because he is not seeing another woman he think he is holier that the rest of us” They begin to dig under until they turn his wife spirit against him. Then they pay her fare to England. For some three months he has no idea as to the whereabout of his wife. One Sunday while he was in Church the pastor read a letter that came from England, from the deacon’s wife. That is when he know that all the people knew where his wife were all along, and were the ones that set up his own downfall.
WHEN THE WIFE IS GIVING SINGING AND PREACHING PRIVILEGE WHILE THE HUSBAND IS BEING IGNORED.
A subliminal message is being passed on to the wife here. “You are the anointed one, you are the one that is being call by God, you are the one that are living clean, what are you doing with a man like that?” Both wife and children begin to look down upon the husband and thinking he is being rejected by God, since his church rejects his ministry and do not regarded him as any thing but a bench warmer. Soon his wife and children reject his leadership in the home and problem started. Most time the family split three ways. Which ever way it split somebody from that family always end up being left at the church and the others went off some other place. When you backtrack what has cause all the problem, gossips and slandering by both pastor and wife or by the pastors wife is want cause the death of such marriage. On more than two occasion I had to run to save my marriage and family.
PASTOR ACTING LIKE GOD GAVE HIM A MANDATE OVER YOUR LIFE.
I have been a Christians almost forty years and have seen many lives being broken up. Many pastors saw women as easy to be control and manipulate, and in trying to control the family and keep them in that church, they zoomed in on the wife. “Where the sheep goes the wolves will follow” “ Where the buffalos goes the Indians will follow” “Where the wife goes the husband and children will follow” Therefore by controlling the wife you control the whole family.
Matthew 23:11-12 (KJV) But he that is greatest among you shall be your servant. [12] And whosoever shall exalt himself shall be abased; and he that shall humble himself shall be exalted. Matthew 20:25-28 (Living) But Jesus called them together and said, "Among the heathen, kings are tyrants and each minor official lords it over those beneath him. [26] But among you it is quite different. Anyone wanting to be a leader among you must be your servant. [27] And if you want to be right at the top, you must serve like a slave. [28] Your attitude must be like my own, for I, the Messiah, did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give my life as a ransom for many."
PASTORS’S MASCOT.
When your wife become pastors’s mascot, is time to leave the church, in fact you should leave from you saw her steadily becoming a mascot, going to pastors house cooking his food, and cleaning up like a kitchen girl. You might say “ James you do not sound like you like these pastors” I will say “ Yes I scorned and pity them lording it over foolish and simple people only because they are trying to please Christ. Yes I scorned these men. One of my friend started a church and in three weeks after he started it he was keeping pastors appreciation day service, but he only have two members. You do not want a wife who is a pastor’s call girl. The apostle Paul never had a call girl.
Even in the business world, they think women are easy to be control. I went with my wife to buy a new car, the salesman would never talk to me he just zooming in on my wife so I get up and walk away. “Ok You want to talk only to my wife, let her sign the papers” Especially when the wife is a black American woman, they think the woman is the one that take the leading role in the family. Well ! Not in my family, if I am not the cock crowing on the fence I will not be living in that yard. I feel the Jamaican blood boiling in my vain when they act like that, wise husbands must show people the they are not a figure head husbands.
I have seen husbands became member of churches and when they left, the wives is still at the church and he is some place sleeping at a lonely motel room. Hath he move his family to another church sooner his marriage would have been save. My plan is to show men the danger sign to be looking out for and when to run.
If God is going to help a person, He done so through human beings, if the people that you are among is not paying attention to the word of God are is not listening to God’s Holy Spirit, there is no help in that church for you to get, you are only there to help them, but not getting your needs ministered to, people fall head over heal with charismatic churches, because they think the noise mean any thing, well I spent almost forty years in it.
WHERE WERE THE PROPHETS IN THE CHURCH?
Every one of these charismatic churches had prophets and prophesies in their midst. Husband and wife been coming to church for six months and are not sleeping together, none of the prophets in the church know of it. I have seen cases where the people junk the Holy Communion under the chars that they are sitting on, while pretending to drink it. None of the prophets in the church know of this. Believers went home hungry, none of the prophets in the church know of this. They only know who sex who, and who is going with whom cheep prophecy. Do you ever wonder that all the utterances are always the same? “Be ye holy unto the lord”
2 Cor. 11:13 (KJV) For such are false apostles, deceitful workers, transforming themselves into the apostles of Christ. 2 Cor. 11:14 (KJV) And no marvel; for Satan himself is transformed into an angel of light. 2 Cor. 11:15 (KJV) Therefore it is no great thing if his ministers also be transformed as the ministers of righteousness; whose end shall be according to their works.
Isaiah 56:10 (KJV) His watchmen are blind: they are all ignorant, they are all dumb dogs, they cannot bark; sleeping, lying down, loving to slumber. Isaiah 56:11 (KJV) Yea, they are greedy dogs which can never have enough, and they are shepherds that cannot understand: they all look to their own way, every one for his gain, from his quarter. Isaiah 56:12 (KJV) Come ye, say they, I will fetch wine, and we will fill ourselves with strong drink; and to morrow shall be as this day, and much more abundant. Isaiah 57:1 (KJV) The righteous perisheth, and no man layeth it to heart: and merciful men are taken away, none considering that the righteous is taken away from the evil to come.
In one church I visited in new York. I visited a brother home XX lover boy. I saw him having the deacon daughter in naked in bed just a few minutes after church. When we return to church for the night service, the prophet in the church call him to the pulpit. And prophecies over him and told him that God is using him among the young people so he must stay close to them. When I heard it I wonder what kind of God is that, that these people serve, if that deacon ever know that this man had his under age daughter in bed just a few hours ago, a fight would have been broken out in that church, long from here to East Africa.
LOUD VOICE AND FAST TALKING IS NOT THE HOLY SPIRT.
Matthew 7:15-17 (Living Bible) "Beware of false teachers who come disguised as harmless sheep, but are wolves and will tear you apart. [16] You can detect them by the way they act, just as you can identify a tree by its fruit. You need never confuse grapevines with thorn bushes or figs with thistles. [17] Different kinds of fruit trees can quickly be identified by examining their fruit.
Matthew 7:15-20 (KJV) Beware of false prophets, which come to you in sheep's clothing, but inwardly they are ravening wolves. [16] Ye shall know them by their fruits. Do men gather grapes of thorns, or figs of thistles? [17] Even so every good tree bringeth forth good fruit; but a corrupt tree bringeth forth evil fruit. [18] A good tree cannot bring forth evil fruit, neither can a corrupt tree bring forth good fruit. [19] Every tree that bringeth not forth good fruit is hewn down, and cast into the fire. [20] Wherefore by their fruits ye shall know them.
Luke 9:56 (KJV) For the Son of man is not come to destroy men's lives, but to save them. And they went to another village.
Col. 3:12 (KJV) Put on therefore, as the elect of God, holy and beloved, bowels of mercies, kindness, humbleness of mind, meekness, longsuffering;
Philip. 2:1 (KJV) If there be therefore any consolation in Christ, if any comfort of love, if any fellowship of the Spirit, if any bowels and mercies,
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