A woman beater is an over grown bully, who is lucky enough to
find a human punching bag. However, a bully is a coward,
that is looking for easy battle, these easy battle will earn him a
reputation as a fighter but he is not. The day you stand up to a bully
he pull his tail between his legs and ran away.
WOMEN BEATING:
Many women do not know that sometime their man is sleeping with their
best friend, sisters and other women family. Women confide in other
women, and these women are telling the man what you told
them, and that is why he is so angry all the time.
STANDING UP TO THE WOMAN BEATER:
Did you know that there is one thing a stalker fear most, and that is stalking. A stalker love to stalked others, but when the table is turn on him, he melt down. A woman beater do not like to get beating, he can dish it out but cannot take it. If he know that you will get a couple of guys to take his butt apart bit by bit, or if he know that you will blow off his head he think twice about messing with you. Now I am not telling you to go and kill people. I am just saying, that if people know that the fight is not finish where you are concern, they will go and look for another coward like themselves to beat up.
CALL IN THE POLICE:
Call in the police the first time a man hit. Do not wait for him to change, it will never happen. It will only get worst until you stop him. The longer you take to clean up mess is the stinker it get.
Have him lacked up, then bailed him out, and let him go do the domestic violence programe, before he came back in. However, you must not be the one at fault, remember a domestic violence to a man's record will almost null his chance of landing a job. Especially if he is a black man.
A WOMAN'S FIRST LINE OF DEFENSE:
Before moving in with a man, she must discussed domestic violence with
him, or both went and do the course. She must have grievance plan.
Have a plan how to deal with hear say
. " hear say " Have a way to cause a woman to act up and begin to gripe, this can greatly annoys the man. people have a sense of knowing when others are agitated and get
agitated themselves. Never argue with a man when he is hungry, angry,
want to sleep are just waking up. If an argument develop and the man
want to leave the house, she must never prevent him from leaving.
If you both cannot get on any more and he packed up to leave. Let him
parachute to safety in peace. Do not force a man to kill you, he might
just get away with it.
A WOMAN SHOULD KNOW A
LITTLE ABOUT BEHAVIOUR
MANAGEMENT:
This is the second line of DEFENSE. When a man became aggressive, the
woman must ask, who is this aggression for? What is causing this? And
how to prevent it from get out of hand!
Sometime it is problems on the job, sometime it is problems that the
man do not want to talk about. I was driving from Ct to New York with
my wife and children in our car. I speeded up to pass a vehicle, and
now my pedal stuck. The car keep going faster and faster. She wanted to
find out why the speeding! But if I tell her, she will cause a
panic,
which will only make matters worst. I put my foot under the pedal and
is trying to bring it up. When a man say we will talk about it later,
shut up. Constantly griping could just be the chance that Satan wanted
to cause more distraction, and pull off a destruction.
THE CAUSE OF AGITATIONS:
Pain, hunger, anger, fear and side effect of medications.
She will need to look into the man's history to see if he was abused as
a child. Many people who was abused tend to became abusers themselves.
Some men has hallucination and paranoia problem. People must look what
they are jumping into.
AGGRESSION AND ITS SIGNS:
When a man became aggressive, and he was not like that when he started
out, she will need to look into that. The signs are. Cursing, false
accusation, yelling, hitting, biting, spitting and throwing things
around.
PERSONALITY CLASHES
Sometime there is a personality clash. The woman reading the man's note
book behind his back. Checking his pager or phone. Calling phone number
that came on his phone bills to see who he was talking to. Downing him
all the time.
DO NOT PICK FIGHT:
A man move in with a woman because he see her as the best of all the woman that he had.
He did not move in with her because he want somebody to beat.
He can find somebody to beat up in the street. Do not make him aggressive.
Do not gripe all the time, if somebody told you things about him. Ask him about it, let him defend himself. Do not blame a man because he want sex, and spite him out of relationship. A man approached a woman because he see her as the best. Not because he disrespected her and see her as the worst. Learn to understand men, before getting involved with them. Keep away from women who has a grudge against men. You do not have to tell your sisters and friend who you sleep with, they will tell it back to your man.
Genesis 2:21-AV And the LORD God caused a deep sleep to fall upon
Adam, and he slept: and he took one of his ribs, and closed up
the flesh instead thereof;
Genesis 2:22-AV And the rib, which the LORD God had taken from
man, made he a woman, and brought her unto the man.
1Corinthians 11:3-AV But I would have you know, that the head of
every man is Christ; and the head of the woman [is] the man; and
the head of Christ [is] God.
1Peter 3:1-AV Likewise, ye wives, [be] in subjection to your own
husbands; that, if any obey not the word, they also may without
the word be won by the conversation of the wives;
1Peter 3:2-AV While they behold your chaste conversation
[coupled] with fear.
1Peter 3:3-AV Whose adorning let it not be that outward
[adorning] of plaiting the hair, and of wearing of gold, or of
putting on of apparel;
1Peter 3:4-AV But [let it be] the hidden man of the heart, in
that which is not corruptible, [even the ornament] of a meek and
quiet spirit, which is in the sight of God of great price.
1Peter 3:5-AV For after this manner in the old time the holy
women also, who trusted in God, adorned themselves, being in
subjection unto their own husbands:
1Peter 3:6-AV Even as Sara obeyed Abraham, calling him lord:
whose daughters ye are, as long as ye do well, and are not afraid
with any amazement.
THE MAN MUST BE ABLE TO SEE IT COMING
AND HAVE A RETREATS UNTIL THINGS COOL DOWN:
Proverbs 22:3-AV A prudent [man] foreseeth the evil, and hideth
himself: but the simple pass on, and are punished.
1Peter 3:7-AV Likewise, ye husbands, dwell with [them] according
to knowledge, giving honour unto the wife, as unto the weaker
vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life; that
your prayers be not hindered.
THE END
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