GOD IS BEING BLAME FOR THE AFFLICTIONS THAT PEOPLE HAD.

L amentations 3:33-AV For he doth not afflict willingly nor grieve the children of men.

3John 1:2-AV Beloved, I wish above all things that thou mayest prosper and be in health, even as thy soul prospereth.

1Chronicles 16:21-AV He suffered no man to do them wrong: yea, he reproved kings for their sakes,

Psalms 105:14-AV He suffered no man to do them wrong: yea, he reproved kings for their sakes;

John 10:10-AV The thief cometh not, but for to steal, and to kill, and to destroy: I am come that they might have life, and that they might have [it] more abundantly.

I t's not the will of God for his people to suffer unnecessarily. His will for us; to prosper and be in good health.

A lady friend of mine divorce about four times, at the same time she stayed on one job for more than ten years until the company close down. One day she asks me for some information, to keep her marriage together. I told her to apply the same principles to her marriage that she used to keep her job. She never had a quarrel with any of her boss, she knows how to live with them and how to avoid squabble. People have learned to drop their baggage when dealing with their boss, but will not drop that baggage when dealing with their spouses. Let the same love that you had in the begening continue to flow.

A PRE-MARITAL AGREEMENT.

Every thing that I had before we get married, incase we have to divorce, I do not want to share them, only what we achieve together after we get married. The person must sign to the premarital agreement. Have your premarital agreement put together by a lawyer. Many people came into the marriage to rape it, to see what they can get. The premarital agreement can protect you from devious people. In the premarital agreement all these so-call problem need to be discussed, before getting married to people. The couple must ask each other. “ If I hugged somebody at church will this be a problem? If I look at woman at the stop slights, will this be a problem? If a man looks at me as he passes by, will this be a problem? Will my education be a treat to you? Believe me, it will.

HAVING A PLAN HOW TO DEAL WITH GRIEVANCE:

In your premarital agreement, you must have a plan set up how to deal with grievance. You will need to beware of family and friends. These only know how to put gasoline on fire. When you hear stuff about your spouse. How do you plan to deal with it? Do I swallow this down? Are do I ask he/she in an intelligent way? No body hears stuff like women. Women cannot keep their mouth, nor their ears shut.

SEXUAL PREFERENCES:

If you are not into sodomy, oral sex, bondage sex, and group sex you should discuss these with your partner, and have it in the premarital agreements. “He is a nice person” I would say “Nice person hell” Do you know how many nice devils walking about the place? These are some things you will need to know about your intended spouse before marriage. You must ask!

What are your sexual preferences? Some kind of sex life that people practice, would make you your eyeballs drop out. Some men bring their wife to a club, where every body uses her. Some even bring their pets, let me not say that.

You have to know what you are jumping into. Ask questions, and stop talking about you are in love. In love with the devil in the form of a man. If I requested to see your medical record and police record before getting married, will this be a problem to you? Some people have a police record long from here Cuba.

If I saved my money by my self, will this be a problem?” If one of the couple have a child before. They could ask the other. “I have one child, will this be a problem?”“ My parents are old and are living with me, will this be a problem?” I eat pork” will this be a problem to you? “ I am a sinner if I drink my beer, will this be a problem to you? Some people came into the marriage with hang-ups, hang over, and wounded spirits, and self-righteous attitude.

You need to defuse these hidden bombs before the marriage. Because these conditions lay the foundation to break the marriage. You have to defeats these problems before it became a problem. Before the engagement the person must agree to let you quit the engagement if you think you should not bother getting married.

DO THE PRELIMINARY STEPS BEFORE YOU QUIT:

If a problem arises, you and your spouse must go and talk to your clergyman about your problems. If the problem still continues, from there you go to a professional marriage consoler. The counselor will know if he/she must sent you both to a sex therapist, or medical doctor, accordingly to your problems. After all that, and the problem still continue, you must now file for divorce. God did not bring us together to make each other unhappy. The good news is not for you to die but to have life in all aspects of your life. But before you do any thing stupid, first do the preliminary steps. We are talking about “ Why Christians backslide”

After all that, and the problem still continue, you must now file for divorce. God did not bring us together to make each other unhappy. The good news is not for you to die but to have life in all aspects of your life. But before you do any thing stupid, first do the preliminary steps. We are talking about “ Why Christians backslide”

CAN TWO WALK.

Amos 3:3 [Can two walk together, except they be agreed?] Amos 5:18. [except they be agreed] See 2 Cor. 6:14-18. For more on the series.

KNOWING THE WILL OF GOD.

It is not every man that like a woman, is fit for that woman. It is not every woman that like a man is fit for that man.

AGE AGE COMPATIBILITY:

Minister walked into my office, he sit down and for a while did not say a word. Finally when he speak, he asked a questions” Rev how many time would you say is normal for a couple to have sex per week? I say from age twenty to fifty, at least two to three times per week depend on their diet is ok. He says he is not getting that. And to make matters worst, he is one of those ministers who only had one wife. At first when I saw his wife, I say” God bless the Rev, this woman seem to have every thing under one roof. I was wrong. If a man keep watching long hair and big bottom he bound to make a wrong choice. Some Christians married and are not having sexual intercourse. Satan’s plan is for you and I to be unhappy in every arias of our life. If you are a man, and have sexual needs, go for the youngest legal age.

Genesis 17:17 Then Abraham fell upon his face, and laughed, and said in his heart, Shall a child be born unto him that is an hundred years old? and shall Sarah, that is ninety years old, bear?)( Abraham was ten years older that his wife. This was not an accident. At certain age a woman stop having children naturally. Regardless of what medical scientist say. Younger women have more sexual desires than older women.

That is those that were not sexually abused by member of their own family and abused in generally. It is easy to pick up a partner in the church who is done sexually. Satan uses the church as a dumping ground. You check how much milk you are able to get from an old cow! And how often can you get it! When a man married to a woman, most churchwomen do not have sex because it is their duty to their husband. They do it because they want it. If they do not want it, it is not going to happen any time soon. A man must cut the cake in his favor, make sure that woman is at least ten years younger than you. Are else you are going to have sex problem long from here to Germany.

MANY CHRISTIANS COUPLE ARE NOT GOING ACCORDINGLY TO THE BIBLE:

1 Corinthians 7:1-AV Now concerning the things whereof ye wrote unto me: [It is] good for a man not to touch a woman. 1Corinthians 7:2-AV Nevertheless, [to avoid] fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband. 1Corinthians 7:3-AV Let the husband render unto the wife due benevolence: and likewise also the wife unto the husband. 1Corinthians 7:4-AV The wife hath not power of her own body, but the husband: and likewise also the husband hath not power of his own body, but the wife. 1Corinthians 7:5-AV Defraud ye not one the other, except [it be] with consent for a time, that ye may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again, that Satan tempt you not for your incontinency. 1Corinthians 7:6-AV But I speak this by permission, [and] not of commandment. 1Corinthians 7:7-AV For I would that all men were even as I myself. But every man hath his proper gift of God, one after this manner, and another after that. 1Corinthians 7:8-AV I say therefore to the unmarried and widows, It is good for them if they abide even as I. 1Corinthians 7:9-AV But if they cannot contain, let them marry: for it is better to marry than to burn. 1Corinthians 7:10-AV And unto the married I command, [yet] not I, but the Lord, Let not the wife depart from [her] husband: 1Corinthians 7:11-AV But and if she depart, let her remain unmarried, or be reconciled to [her] husband: and let not the husband put away [his] wife.

ONLY CHRIST JESUS CAN FIX PEOPLE, IF YOU NEED FIXING, YOU WILL NEED TO SEEK HIM:

Matthew 6:33-AV But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you.

Isaiah 55:6-AV Seek ye the LORD while he may be found, call ye upon him while he is near: Isaiah 55:7-AV Let the wicked forsake his way, and the unrighteous man his thoughts: and let him return unto the LORD, and he will have mercy upon him; and to our God, for he will abundantly pardon.

JESUS IS SEEKING FOR YOU:

Matthew 18:11-AV For the Son of man is come to save that which was lost.

Luke 19:10-AV For the Son of man is come to seek and to save that which was lost.

CHRIST IS CALLING YOU TO COME:

Isaiah 1:18-AV Come now, and let us reason together, saith the LORD: though your sins be as scarlet, they shall be as white as snow; though they be red like crimson, they shall be as wool.

John 7:37-AV In the last day, that great [day] of the feast, Jesus stood and cried, saying, If any man thirst, let him come unto me, and drink. John 7:38-AV He that believeth on me, as the scripture hath said, out of his belly shall flow rivers of living water.

Revelation 22:17-AV And the Spirit and the bride say, Come. And let him that heareth say, Come. And let him that is athirst come. And whosoever will, let him take the water of life freely.

ONLY JESUS CAN SAVE:

Acts 4:12-AV Neither is there salvation in any other: for there is none other name under heaven given among men, whereby we must be saved.

John 1:12-AV But as many as received him, to them gave he power to become the sons of God, [even] to them that believe on his name:

WHOSOEVER

1John 3:15-AV Whosoever hateth his brother is a murderer: and ye know that no murderer hath eternal life abiding in him.

James 2:10-AV For whosoever shall keep the whole law, and yet offend in one [point], he is guilty of all.

Acts 2:21-AV And it shall come to pass, [that] whosoever shall call on the name of the Lord shall be saved.

Romans 10:13-AV For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.

TO SERVE GOD YOU MUST LINE YOURSELF UP WITH HIS KIND OF THINKING:

Isaiah 55:8-AV For my thoughts [are] not your thoughts, neither [are] your ways my ways, saith the LORD. Isaiah 55:9-AV For [as] the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways, and my thoughts than your thoughts.

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