"WHAT EVERY YOUNG MAN NEEDS
TO KNOW ABOUT WOMEN"
Copyright C 1998 by J.A.Mcbean. Library of Congress Washington.D.C.20559
F or Century women resented 1 Peter 3:7 which refers to women as the weaker vessel. Sometimes I wonder in what way is women really weaker than men. Women outthink men on all fronts, in most case women get the house, get the car, get the money in the bank, while she is at fault, and the man get dung. However, in some ways women are weaker than men. Most men will never relate their bed life with their men friends on the job, but a woman will do just that, and thinking nothing of it. Most men will never take prostitutes to there home, but the woman will do just that, thinking that her man is not smart enough to know what she is up to. Condoms have ways to float up back into bathrooms.
Men venturing out into the world of women must know that a chain is strong as its weakest link. The family is as strong as the weakest parents. It is the weak link that is going to be broken under the stress of time and drag down a the family. A wife morality is a strong as the weakest woman in the group that she hangs out with. The weakest person in that group will always talk the most because they have the most gripes to pour out.
If I was to be, ask. What encouragement do you have for the young men of today? I would have said. Get a good education, and try getting it early. Learn about money, learn about women, learn about God, and learn about your body. Above all, learn about money, and learn about women. Wrong choices of women is the death of many a man. In this article, we will be talking directly about knowing women.
THE HUSBAND’S WORST ENEMIES.
1 Peter 3:7 (KJV) Likewise, ye husbands, dwell with them according to knowledge, giving honour unto the wife, as unto the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life; that your prayers be not hindered.
I work in garment factory for about fifteen years, the ratio between men and women working in these factories were about six men to fifty women. On migrating to the USA, I work in nursing home, for about the same period of time, the ratio of men and women working in these nursing home were about six men to fifty women. When these women go to the lunchroom, put their tails together, and begin to talk. They talk right down the size and length of their husbands genital. This is where good women turn out bad, and bad women goes from bad to worst. I caught married women giving blowjobs to bosses in some of these place. Then later on at some job party, they introduce the husbands so he can look like a fool.
WIVES FRIENDS.
The woman the man living with is not so much the problem, it is her friend who has no man of her own is the problem.
Every woman is surrounded by a numbers of women, who they confide in. Women on the job, women in church, and the woman’s women family.
Sirach 42:13. For just as moths comes from garments, so harm to women comes from women. Sirach 37:7. Every counselor points out a way, but some counsel ways of their own; be on the alert when one proffers advice, find out first of all what he wants. For he may be thinking of himself alone; why should the profit fall to him?
The New American Bible. Saint Joseph Edition. Catholic Books Publishing Company
For example, a woman that has all her children for different fathers. What does this tell you? She has first attractions, she is able to pull in as many man as she wanted but has no training a how to keep any. I have a lady friend in New haven Ct, a very pretty girl, she is surrounded by a lot of women friends. Unknowingly to her, the other women user her as bate, to pull in the men, then told the men things about her and takes away the men. Once she makes the acquaintance, the other stole the men. Her problem is she is silly; believing every one, that laugh up in her face is a friend.
WHEN NOT TO GET MARRY.
You the man must be ready to carry the most important responsibility of the home, this leave the woman with her car payment, phone bills and clothing only. The reason for this. The burden of the other bills of the home will drive the woman into discontentment. No body talks and complains like discontented women. These discontented women are most venerable to the bad mouth of other women, who will put things in her head. It also leaves her venerable to other men who will use her as their own private prostitute. No matter what a man a woman talk about and agree to, it will stand up until the other women hears about it. That plan is never full proof.
BEWARE OF THROW AWAY AND LET DOWN FEMALE
A woman, who every man left, is not a woman you want to stick with, it is better to take a woman with five children who her husband dies, than to take one with two whom her husband left. A man fined it easy to leave a woman but to left children behind is very hard even for the worst of men.
RESPONSIBILITY DOES NOT WAIT.
A young man must be prepared with skills and job training, before he goes out looking girlfriends. A man just wake up one morning and responsibility just drop a him. I wake up one morning and was getting married, then one morning I was a father. Responsibility is not going to wait for a man to put things together.
AIM HIGH AND THINK BIG.
The Muslim holy book, the Koran, said: “Unclean women are for unclean men” I say dunce women is for dunce men, hurt women is for hurt men, bitter-spirited women are for bitter-spirited men. Do not take a fish on board that will bite you.
LEAVE YOURSELF AN OUT.
When dealing with women you the man must always have a place of retreat. If you are living in countries like America, it is women country, you cannot knock her over when she starts to gripe,. However, if the man is smart he can leave until things sought itself out.
KNOW WHEN TO LET IT GO.
Women have the sympathy of the court, the police, the clergy and her children. You the man has no body to take up for you. Plan your leaving. You would be surprise to know that a woman has many places that she can go and live. She put these in place from she saw that things were not going her way. From the time a woman find out that she will not be able to manipulate her man and control him she begin to plan her retreat. Women just do not walk out and have no place to go. They draw up a plan. Just leave, and never look back. When you leave do not make her think that her attitudes kills you, she must see you living, in fact she must not see you at all. Do not go hanging around her place like a little hungry puppy dog.
Never try to catch a woman with a man in bed until you have things in place to move out the same day. Caught her in the act will make her panic, and leave right away and you alone has that mortgage to pay. That is why you alone must be able to carry all the most important bills of the house. If you are going to buy real estate, your income alone must be able to carry it.
If she been hurt, abuse she will need to go get council and treatment until she is completely recovered. You need to know that you have not seen all the fishes that are in the sea. The one that you saw wash up on the seaside, there are many more where that one came from.
THAT GOLD KIND OF WOMEN.
What you will need to look for in women. Is a humble spirit. Once she is sassy, boastful, bitter and think she hold the world by it tail, you are baking up the wrong tree. It is not your job to fix a woman that you did not break. Who ever abuse her, hurt her are the one responsible to see that she get fixing from professional. However, if she means that much to you, you must feel her pain, share in her sorrows and encourage her to get help, and if she profess that, she need no help them pull your tail between your legs and run. Because bitter spirited women never grow out of it.
1Pe 3:3 Whose adorning let it not be that outward adorning of plaiting the hair, and of wearing of gold, or of putting on of apparel; 1Pe 3:4 But let it be the hidden man of the heart, in that which is not corruptible, even the ornament of a meek and quiet spirit, which is in the sight of God of great price.
1Pe 3:3 What matters is not your outer appearance--the styling of your hair, the jewelry you wear, the cut of your clothes-- 1Pe 3:4 but your inner disposition. Cultivate inner beauty, the gentle, gracious kind that God delights in. 1Pe 3:5 The holy women of old were beautiful before God that way, and were good, loyal wives to their husbands.
We were not born with these qualities; we will need to adopt them, because we have seen where it is profitable.
DO NOT BE FOOLED BY BODY SHAPE AND CLOTHING.
The most cantankerous female has some of the best body shape. Women know that men are looking at the outwards appearances, or body shape, and therefore spent countless thousand dollars weekly to make their faces and body looking good. Some went under the knife many times to fix their nose and breast. Some ladies nothing on their body belong to them, except their tongues.
Pro 21:9 It is better to dwell in a corner of the housetop, than with a brawling woman in a wide house. Pro 21:9 Better to live alone in a tumbledown shack than share a mansion with a nagging spouse.
DO NOT TURN FOOL OVER A ONE-TIME SEX.
Beware of women who came in to grasp a commitment. Good relationship grows into a commitment. Some men make one time sex blow their mind. You do mot want a car that is giving trouble and certainly do not want problem woman.
BEWARE OF WOMEN WHO THINK TOO HIGHLY OF THEMSELVE.
Thinking she can land any man, she wants. Thinking that she is God’s gift to men. Bad thinking produces bad action. People who think that they are sweet always stink. A pretty women do not need to show it off are need it as those who do not have it, she born with it and it is natural to her, she do not need it like those who do not have it. A woman who cocks her tail up in the air saying she is cute, are only blowing gas, she has never seen cute women. Cute women do not need to act like it. Rich people do not need to show it off, the richest man is my community in Jamaica was the humblest man in the whole region.
Gal 6:3 For if a man think himself to be something, when he is nothing, he deceiveth himself. 1Co 8:2 And if any man think that he knoweth any thing, he knoweth nothing yet as he ought to know. Rom 12:3 For I say, through the grace given unto me, to every man that is among you, not to think of himself more highly than he ought to think; but to think soberly, according as God hath dealt to every man the measure of faith.
NEVER BE IN A HURRY TO MARRY A WOMAN
A woman will buy and uses her dildos, so as not to fall in desperation for sexual gratification, by so doing she can out wait the man. She is not in any hurry unless the man is rich. I have seen cases where the woman is in love with the best man but she is getting married to his friend because he is more financially able.
Every woman has a mental trash library, where they dumped men that they disdained; men who women think are needy, hard up and are a grabber always ends up in the women’s mental trash pile. When a man came into a woman presence, within the first five or so minutes that woman sized up that man and determines if he is a needy dogs or a horned bastard. Any attention that you give to her that she did not warrant will definitely put you into her mental trash pile. If she do not act like she wants to talk, act like she is interested in you, or give you eye contact, it is best to leave her alone. You are only going to give yourself a negative image. It is like going over somebody house and told them that your wife is hungry. Could I wash your car clean your shoes and you give me some food? Once a man fall into a woman-disdained list, he do not have a chance even with the other women that, that woman associate with.
It is ok to check a woman out visually, but it is bad business to be staring at her crutch, that causes her to be feeling like a piece of meat. If you are in bed with her it is quite different, but the man saw her coming up the road, it is best to look directly at her face if you think you have to look at her.
SOMETIME ONLY JESUS CAN HELP US:
Matthew 6:33-AV But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you.
Isaiah 55:6-AV Seek ye the LORD while he may be found, call ye upon him while he is near: Isaiah 55:7-AV Let the wicked forsake his way, and the unrighteous man his thoughts: and let him return unto the LORD, and he will have mercy upon him; and to our God, for he will abundantly pardon.
LOOK AT THE BENEFITS OF BECOMING A CHRISTIAN:
How does a person become a Christian, and are sure that he/she is save? First the person must know that he/she is a sinner and need deliverance from the lord.
Romans 3:23 (KJV) for all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God;
Galatians 3:22 (KJV) But the scripture hath concluded all under sin, that the promise by faith of Jesus Christ might be given to them that believe.
THE SINNER MUST BELIEVE THAT THERE IS A GOD:
Hebrews 11:6 NKJV But without faith it is impossible to please Him, for he who comes to God must believe that He is, and that He is a rewarder of those who diligently seek Him.
THE SINNER MUST BELIEVE THAT GOD IS READY TO FORGIVE HIM:
Isaiah 55:7 (KJV)Let the wicked forsake his way, and the unrighteous man his thoughts: and let him return unto the Lord, and he will have mercy upon him; and to our God, for he will abundantly pardon.
THE SINNER MUST BELIEVE THAT CHRIST DIED FOR HIM:
Romans 5:6 (KJV) For when we were yet without strength, in due time Christ died for the ungodly.
Romans 5:8 (KJV)But God commendeth his love toward us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us.
1 Cor. 15:3-8 (KJV) For I delivered unto you first of all that which I also received, how that Christ died for our sins according to the scriptures; [4] And that he was buried, and that he rose again the third day according to the scriptures: [5] And that he was seen of Cephas, then of the twelve: [6] After that, he was seen of above five hundred brethren at once; of whom the greater part remain unto this present, but some are fallen asleep. [7] After that, he was seen of James; then of all the apostles. [8] And last of all he was seen of me also, as of one born out of due time.
MUST BELIEVE THAT GOD CAN KEEP HIM:
Ephes. 3:20 (KJV) Now unto him that is able to do exceeding abundantly above all that we ask or think, according to the power that worketh in us,
Jude 1:24 (KJV) Now unto him that is able to keep you from falling, and to present you faultless before the presence of his glory with exceeding joy,
PERFECTING THE SAINTS IS A WORK OF GOD:
1 Peter 5:10 (KJV) But the God of all grace, who hath called us unto his eternal glory by Christ Jesus, after that ye have suffered a while, make you perfect, establish, strengthen, settle you.
THE SINNER MUST KNOW THAT ONLY JESUS CAN SAVE THEM:
Acts 4:12 (KJV) Neither is there salvation in any other: for there is none other name under heaven given among men, whereby we must be saved.
THE SINNER MUST MAKE A DECISION TODAY:
Isaiah 1:18 (KJV) Come now, and let us reason together, saith the Lord: though your sins be as scarlet, they shall be as white as snow; though they be red like crimson, they shall be as wool.
2 Cor. 6:2 (KJV) (For he saith, I have heard thee in a time accepted, and in the day of salvation have I succoured thee: behold, now is the accepted time; behold, now is the day of salvation.)
BOW YOUR HEAD AND PRAY THIS PRAYER:
Lord I am a sinner and need your salvation. Forgive all my sins. I accept your son Jesus as my savior today.
We can sing with the song writer" I rise walk in heaven’s own light above the world and sin with heart made pure and garments white, and Christ en-throned with in. The cleansing stream I see I see I plunge, and O It cleans-eth me. O praise the Lord, it cleans-eth me, it cleans-eth me yes, cleans-eth me."
DROP ALL PRE-CONCEIVE IDEAS OF CHRISTIANITY:
Drop all preconceived ideas of Christianity because these conflict with the reality of Christianity. The lord will live the life through you day by day. You do not drop things from your life on your own. The spirit of God will walk you out of sins in his own time.
FIRST HUMBLING YOU:
Ephes. 2:8-9 (KJV)For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: [9] Not of works, lest any man should boast.
If you stop sins and get holy before God’s timing you will begin to boast how it is your own magnetism got you so far, then you became a source of discouragement to others. Therefore, you are going to stuck upon a sin or two. The sin always getting the better of you. This will push you to always accept God’s grace, and to see your own frailness.
1 John 1:8 (KJV) If we say that we have no sin, we deceive ourselves, and the truth is not in us.
TO CONTINUE GROWING IN GOD:
1 Peter 2:2 (KJV) As newborn babes, desire the sincere milk of the word, that ye may grow thereby:
2 Peter 1:5-10 (NKJV) But also for this very reason, giving all diligence, add to your faith virtue, to virtue knowledge, 6 to knowledge self-control, to self-control perseverance, to perseverance godliness, 7 to godliness brotherly kindness, and to brotherly kindness love. 8 For if these things are yours and abound, you will be neither barren nor unfruitful in the knowledge of our Lord Jesus Christ. 9 For he who lacks these things is shortsighted, even to blindness, and has forgotten that he was cleansed from his old sins. 10 Therefore, brethren, be even more diligent to make your call and election sure, for if you do these things you will never stumble.
FINDING OUT YOUR CALLING:
When I was newly save, the believers always, ask me if I know the will of God for my life! I never really know what they were talking about. Every person that was saved had a mission and a gift. However, because you are just a babe in Christ you do not know any of these. As you go on with the lord his will for you will unfolds day bay day. Do not run off and make any big commitment. Your mate has to be tailor made for you by God. You are now a citizen of heaven. Heaven does not rule by democracy. You cannot serve God with democratic mind set.
WHAT YOU MUST DROP OFF:
Hebrews 12:1 (Living Bible) Since we have such a huge crowd of men of faith watching us from the grandstands, let us strip off anything that slows us down or holds us back, and especially those sins that wrap themselves so tightly around our feet and trip us up; and let us run with patience the particular race that God has set before us.
Ephes. 4:31 (Living Bible) Stop being mean, bad-tempered, and angry. Quarreling, harsh words, and dislike of others should have no place in your lives.
Col. 3:8 (Living Bible) but now is the time to cast off and throw away all these rotten garments of anger, hatred, cursing, and dirty language.
GET A GOOD BIBLE, AND FIND A GOOD CHURCH:
One of the best Bibles out there is the New King James Version. Dake’s annotated Bible is very good. Next, you need a living bible to make some thing simple.
Hebrews 10:25 (Living Bible) Let us not neglect our church meetings, as some people do, but encourage and warn each other, especially now that the day of his coming back again is drawing near.
PROTECTING YOURSELF FROM BEING SPOILED BY MAN:
Col. 2:8 (KJV)Beware lest any man spoil you through philosophy and vain deceit, after the tradition of men, after the rudiments of the world, and not after Christ.
Hebrews 13:9 (KJV) Be not carried about with divers and strange doctrines. For it is a good thing that the heart be established with grace; not with meats, which have not profited them that have been occupied therein.
Seven Ways that People Can Spoil Christians:
1. Through philosophy (Col. 2:8)
2. Through vain deceit (Col. 2:4,8,18-19)
3. Through human traditions (Col. 2:8)
4. Through human religion and world principles contrary to the gospel (Col. 2:8,14-23; note, §Galatians 4:3)
5. Through circumcision (Col. 2:11-13; Acts 15:1; Romans 4:9-16; Galatians 5:1-11)
6. Through the law of Moses, demanding observance of the laws on meats, drinks, holy days, new moons, feasts, and sabbaths (Col. 2:14-17)
7. Through cults that puff up and imitate the gospel (Col. 2:18-23)
By all these means, unsuspecting souls are being carried off as plunder and booty by false teachers. The founders of false religions and human philosophies which pamper the flesh and give their victims elated feelings of importance make an appeal to them.
Christianity is loaded down with some false concept. Some little believe system, which are spread by false believers. One of such teaching is that you must “Look like Christians” How does Christians look? Genuine Christianity is not an external thing but of the heart and spirit.
Micah 6:8 (KJV)He hath shewed thee, O man, what is good; and what doth the Lord require of thee, but to do justly, and to love mercy, and to walk humbly with thy God?
When cults capture a newly converted Christians, the cult first job on that new believer is to close their mind. Preventing the new believer from reading any material from other churches. So that new believer will never get out of their trap.
YOUR HORMONE DOES NOT STOP WORKING WITH CHRISTIANITY:
Philip. 3:20-21 (KJV)For our conversation is in heaven; from whence also we look for the Saviour, the Lord Jesus Christ: [21] Who shall change our vile body, that it may be fashioned like unto his glorious body, according to the working whereby he is able even to subdue all things unto himself.
Romans 8:23 (KJV) And not only they, but ourselves also, which have the firstfruits of the Spirit, even we ourselves groan within ourselves, waiting for the adoption, to wit, the redemption of our body.
Our bodies were not save at conversion. The work of redemption took place in your spirit man. Our body will be redeemed at the return of our lord. We are still waiting for the redemption of our body.
According to Philip 3:20-21 and Romans 8:23. You are still going to have urges. You have to present your body to the lord as a living sacrifice. Not dead one. Living sacrifice give trouble, you will have trouble keeping that body tied to the altar. However, as you and I grow in the lord what seem impossible will be quite possible.
Come back for update soon.
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