By Dr. James. A McBean D.Th., MCC
Copyright © 2008 Library of Congress
Washington.D.C.20559
H istory had it, that the great German Battleship which was launched on 14 February 1939, had created great fear in the heart of the superpowers at the time. Bismarck left the Baltic on 19 May 1941, en route to the Atlantic, accompanied by the heavy cruiser Prinz Eugen. The story continues, that During 1941, a squadron of British warplanes was sent out to sink the German battleship, called the “Bismarck” Winston Churchill gave a direct command telling his men to “Sink the Bismarck at any cost” They pumped bombs that they got in it, but the German battleship refuses to go under. Finally, the British solders believed the rumors that the battleship is unsinkable. Churchill now has two battles on his hand. One! He must get his men to relinquish that concept that the German battleship is unsinkable, and two he must get his men to sink the battleship.
The concepts that governed ancient warfare and modern warfare, is the same concept that one must adopt to survive in the warfare of everyday life. You must empty yourself of the false concepts, and get the facts.
The institution of marriages does not survive by opinion. It survives on facts. It is said that almost fifty percent of people who got married each years end in divorce. Marriage is like a ship that is carrying many people on board. The husband, the wife, the wives’ family, friends, and children. The husband’s girl friends and their friends are also on board that ship.
Age Compatibility.
Some marriage was doom even before they exchange vows. It was doomed by age compatibility. As a boy growing up in Jamaica West Indies. I was the bully buster of my community. I beat them all, then went out and get one of the biggest ass whipping from a girl. She had me throwing stones and knives like a coward. I soon learn that it is not wise to get into a fight with a girl your own age. She is more advance than you in every way. She eats you up and spit you out like a slimy chewing gum.
In the world of boxing, if the under dog does not have speed, he must have punching power. If a man does not have money, he must have sense. A smart man must cut the cake in his favor. If you got married and did not consider the technique of age sex compatibility. Down the road, the marriage runs into sexual problems. If you want to have a happy marriage, you had better think about tomorrow. The Christians community is not quick to forgive adultery and fornication. If you are the kind of man who has to get some, think about age sex compatibility. How much milk do you expect to get out of an aged cow?
Age Incompatibility
Ephes. 5:24 (KJV) Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing.
1 Peter 3:1 (KJV) Likewise, ye wives, be in subjection to your own husbands; that, if any obey not the word, they also may without the word be won by the conversation of the wives;
There is not way any woman is going to be in subjection to a man that is her own age. If a man want subjection from a woman, he betters get a woman that is far younger than him. Why should she be in subjection to a man that is not her equal?
“Hormonal imbalances”
For a man to be a good match for a woman. The man must be at least ten years older than the woman. A thirty-year-old man is no match for a thirty-year-old woman. She is more advance in every way than a man her age. When a woman reaches forty years of age, the menopause begins to set in. Hormonal imbalance becomes a problem. She begins to have hot flashes, mode swing such as irritability, lost of sex drives and so on. When a man reaches forty years old he is just in his prime, at this age the woman prime is over or almost over. (Not with all women) A man should be at least ten years older than his woman for the match to be good. Abraham was ten years older that his wife, and still there were problems. If God did not intervene, she would never get pregnant.
Genesis 17:17 (KJV) Then Abraham fell upon his face, and laughed, and said in his heart, Shall a child be born unto him that is an hundred years old? and shall Sarah, that is ninety years old, bear?
What Estrogen Does
“The estrogenic hormones are uniquely responsible for the growth and development of female sexual characteristics and reproduction in both humans and animals. The term "estrogen" includes a group of chemically similar hormones: estrange, estradiol (the most abundant) and estriol. Overall, estrogen is produced in the ovaries, adrenal glands, and fat tissues. More specifically, the estradiol and estrone forms are produced in the ovaries, while estriol is produced by the placenta during pregnancy.” “In women, estrogen circulates in the bloodstream and binds to estrogen receptors on cells in targeted tissues, affecting not only the breast and uterus, but also the brain, bone, liver, heart and other tissues.” Estrogen and the Vagina and Urinary Tract “When estrogen levels are low, as in menopause, the vagina can become drier and the vaginal walls thinner, making sex painful.”
http://www.healthywomen.org/healthtopics/estrogen.
Menopause is a condition most often associated with women. It occurs in a woman when she ceases to menstruate and can no longer become pregnant (usually). Men experience a different type of 'menopause' or life change. It usually occurs between the ages of 45 and 60. “Testosterone is the hormone that stimulates sexual development in the male infant, bone and muscle growth in adult males, and is responsible for sexual drive. It has been found that even in healthy men, by the age of 55, the amount of testosterone secreted into the bloodstream is significantly lower than it is just ten years earlier. In fact, by age 80, most male hormone levels decrease to pre-puberty levels.”
http://www.andrology.com/andropause.htm
If husbands will not hear preaching of the gospel, they will hear the preaching of the chaste behavior of the wives. If the wife will conduct herself chastely, in reverence to her husband and in the fear of God, her husband may be won (1 Peter 3:2-3). Eight ways to win a husband to God (1 Peter 3:1-6):
1. Submit to and obey husband (1 Peter 3:1,5-6).
2. Obey the Word (1 Peter 3:1).
3. Have chaste conversation (1 Peter 3:2).
4. Let not the outward adorning be the chief aim in life (1 Peter 3:3).
5. Let the inner man be adorned more than the outward man (1 Peter 3:3-4)
. 6. Trust in God (1 Peter 3:5).
7. Do well (1 Peter 3:6).
8. Live faithful to the husband, so there will be no fear of being found guilty of infidelity (1 Peter 3:6).
These are not only duties of a wife, but are the eight things which make a model wife. How can one who is constantly breaking these laws win a husband or anyone else?
SOMETIME ONLY JESUS CAN HELP US
Acts 4:12 (KJV)Neither is there salvation in any other: for there is none other name under heaven given among men, whereby we must be saved.
Romans 5:6 (KJV) For when we were yet without strength, in due time Christ died for the ungodly. Romans 5:7 (KJV) For scarcely for a righteous man will one die: yet peradventure for a good man some would even dare to die. Romans 5:8 (KJV) But God commendeth his love toward us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us. Romans 5:9 (KJV) Much more then, being now justified by his blood, we shall be saved from wrath through him. Romans 5:10 (KJV) For if, when we were enemies, we were reconciled to God by the death of his Son, much more, being reconciled, we shall be saved by his life. Romans 5:11 (KJV) And not only so, but we also joy in God through our Lord Jesus Christ, by whom we have now received the atonement.
Matthew 6:33-AV But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you.
Isaiah 55:6-AV Seek ye the LORD while he may be found, call ye upon him while he is near: Isaiah 55:7-AV Let the wicked forsake his way, and the unrighteous man his thoughts: and let him return unto the LORD, and he will have mercy upon him; and to our God, for he will abundantly pardon.
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