What To Do When People Out To Get You
By Dr. James. A McBean D.Th., MCC
Copyright © 2008 Library of Congress
Washington.D.C.20559
W hen people set out to bring other people down, the fight comes in four phases. The first phase is the cold-shouldering phase. The cold-shouldering phases are full of sarcasm, go to hell looks, complaining, and drumming up supports. Everything is done to get a negative outburst out of you so they can use it against you.
1Sa 18:14 And David behaved himself wisely in all his ways. And Jehovah was with him. 1Sa 18:15 And when Saul saw that he behaved himself very wisely, he was afraid of him
The Second Phase Is The Verbal Phase.
The verbal phase is when the person begins to verbalize their ill feeling. This is the vomit stage, when all the bellyaching and bad gas begin to come out. Depend on how stealth the enemies are, all these stages might come out in one day. A devious enemy will take, weeks, months and sometime years to bring all the stages. The whole things depend on how urgently the person wants you to go out and got you down.
The befriending You Phase.
The befriending you phase is the second worst phase, because it is design to let you drop your guard. This time they come back as friends, laughing, up and talking, up in your face. Praising you and speaking well of you in your presences, but this is only a new war strategy. If he she gets you down in this phase, you never rise to sing about it. Because, now the enemy is as desperate as ever, and will go to no ends to drag you down in the gutter and cement your defeat
Enemies can become friends, people can change, however, the burden of proof is upon the enemy. He/she must produce good works and take longer to be accepted, even then, you still have to sleep with one eyes open around an enemy that become friend.
Never drop your guard, never eat or party with such, keep your opinion to your self, and never goes out with such. I will forgive you, but hell if I will forget you, and dam if I will ever drop my guard or turn my back.
The Rejoicing Stage.
The rejoicing stage is after the person weary you out, and cause you to quit, or get you in trouble. The rejoicing stage is when the enemy taunt, a continues harassment. You become a pow, a prisoner of war, when the enemy taunt the captured solders. This is the stage where physical fight broke out. Gunplay, hit man job. From here onward, serious consequences follows. Your only salvation is not to make the enemy wins.The enemies start to rejoice at your down fall. You do not want the enemy to reach the rejoicing stage. They call your phone and laugh without saying any thing. They walk right over and look in your face with "a bitch you" look and walk away. The rejoicing stages cause many a good person to turn murderer. All the other phases will stop, but not this one. This will goes on for years. You went to the mall and you hear an old familiar voice laughing like crazy, that cause you to look in that direction. This is where drive by shooting comes in. The best way to kill an enemy is to out degree them always. Drive new car, eat good food, and sleep in good bed, if you are a man your woman must have some flesh on her and wear good clothing. The enemy must never hear you complaining, and never see you hungry. Then the enemy will went into hiding.
Pro 4:16 For they sleep not, except they have done mischief; and their sleep is taken away, unless they cause some to fall.
Psa 35:19 Let not them that are mine enemies wrongfully rejoice over me: neither let them wink with the eye that hate me without a cause. Psa 35:20 For they speak not peace: but they devise deceitful matters against them that are quiet in the land.
Sometime Only Jesus Can Help Us
Acts 4:12 (KJV)Neither is there salvation in any other: for there is none other name under heaven given among men, whereby we must be saved.
Romans 5:6 (KJV) For when we were yet without strength, in due time Christ died for the ungodly. Romans 5:7 (KJV) For scarcely for a righteous man will one die: yet peradventure for a good man some would even dare to die. Romans 5:8 (KJV) But God commendeth his love toward us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us. Romans 5:9 (KJV) Much more then, being now justified by his blood, we shall be saved from wrath through him. Romans 5:10 (KJV) For if, when we were enemies, we were reconciled to God by the death of his Son, much more, being reconciled, we shall be saved by his life. Romans 5:11 (KJV) And not only so, but we also joy in God through our Lord Jesus Christ, by whom we have now received the atonement.
Matthew 6:33-AV But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you.
Isaiah 55:6-AV Seek ye the LORD while he may be found, call ye upon him while he is near: Isaiah 55:7-AV Let the wicked forsake his way, and the unrighteous man his thoughts: and let him return unto the LORD, and he will have mercy upon him; and to our God, for he will abundantly pardon.
The Bearer's Of The "Mind Sword"
