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A Woman will go out and spent $400 US on her hair style, another $150 on her finger nails and still another $900 on weight lost programs. Women spent a lot of time on their outward appearances. But outward appearances only bring about a first attraction. It causes the men to look in her directions. However, every time a man approaches a woman, one out of two things happen.

APPROACH AND RETREAT THEORY:

One of the primary reason why men retreat from women is because the men do not understand the woman love language. Some people tell you that they love you then stabs, or bite you in the back. Some aggravate the man and that is her way of telling him that he is getting to her. If you cannot tell the person that you find them attractive, and you like them, then at least act like you like them. If you cannot say it verbally, act it. Actions speak louder than words.

If the woman has what it takes to retain a man, the man either get stuck with her or retreat from her. Nothing drive away men from women like when the women are self righteous. I was sitting a table with one of my female in-law, a man from the other side of the table cannot stop looking at her, so I signal to the man that she is a sister in law. I get up and went away, giving the man his chance, One hour later I return to hear the man pop the questions. The woman told the man that she married to Jesus. The man wings fell like robin being broken up in the storms.

I say" Dang it woman you mean you drive away that man" That was her way of telling the man that she was available, but man do not want to take away Jesus wife. You hook a fish now skin it, do not make his slimy but get away, with foolish talking and self righteous attitude. Jesus do not have a wife. The Church is going to be his bride after the rapture of the church, but not now. Stop saying that Jesus is you husband because it is not true.

DO NOT KNOW HOW TO GIVE GOOD SIGNALS:

Giving good signals is the art of getting a man. Dressing up nice and looking all tush, intimidate some men. Because it make the woman look very expensive and unapproachable.

CHILDREN FASHION SIGNALS:

When I was growing up and a girl like me, and want me to know about it. The girl would send one of her friend to tell me. Many of them would do it in a way that it look like her friend decide to convey the message without her friend knowledge. The only problem with that, sometime the two friend want the same person, and the one that convey the message take the chance and convey the message in a way that she get the boy.

ADAPT MEN LIKE SIGNALS:

When a man interested in a woman, the woman know right away. Because the men do not do it in a way that she will have to decode it. All the men use is eye contact, stare, head turning, and trying to start a conversation.

DO NOT KNOW HOW TO COMMUNICATE TO A MAN, NOR SEDUCE AND GET ONE:

In today world, the sexual harassment law is strong, and men are going to jail for sexual harassment. A woman has to be aggressive, to draw a man out of his shyness.

SEDUCTION IS A NATURAL PART OF BEING A WOMAN:

Seduction is also the art of getting someone to love you. It is an act of winning the love of someone. It is not all bad as preachers sign it out to be.

Un-realisticness is one of the greatest disadvantage of women. Only pretending is another killer. Letting themselves rundown, by refusing to eat well. Trying to have a 100 pound body like a movie star is the killer of women in this age. Not every body can have a movie star body. Not every body was born to be skinny. Waiting for the man to make the first move, causes many to grow old alone, and lonely. Rich and show off, is just like rich and remain hungry.

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TALKING DOWN AT MEN AND ABOUT MEN:

One of my lady friend has a good profession, she is not bad looking any man could pick her up. But the way she act and talk down about men give me the indication that she has been used up. She say "I do not want any man, I married to Jesus" At the same time she do not believe in what she is saying. Days later she say" A Man almost get some from her two days ago. "Her fish almost get fried, but something turn up and cause a distraction"

NO RESPECT FOR MEN:

The way they talk and act, give the impression that no woman is happy with a man. Man just siting down home and waiting to take the woman's check when she came home. I been married for more that twenty years to the same woman and never take her pay check once. Men are getting smart now, they prefer get married to another man than getting involve with a female who is having problem with men.

"ALL MEN WANT IS SEX"

From a woman keep saying this junk, it give the men the indication that this is a female that have serious sex problem. What in heaven's name should a woman want a man that do not love her body! Why a woman want a man who have no use in bed? All he can do is mop up her floor. This is not a man, but a butter licking cat. A real man want woman who can give him competition in bed, he do want somebody who alway making excuses. “ A fish that is scared of bones”

LEAVE THE BAGGAGE:

Psalms 109:22-AV For I [am] poor and needy, and my heart is wounded within me.

Proverbs 18:14-AV The spirit of a man will sustain his infirmity; but a wounded spirit who can bear?

Many people try to start relationship while having a wounded heart and wounded spirit. It is not good to start any new relationship until you get over the hurts from the old one. If you still have some emotional cuts you are not ready for a new relationship. Two wrestler cannot have sex after the game.

HAVING NO AMBITIONS:

Nothing turns a man off from a woman, like when the woman has no ambitions. Some people do not know that they will need to keep updating their life. Cuteness, pretty clothing, good shape is not all what a man is looking at. Big butt only blow big gas, some pretty face only pretty in the street. You cannot start a new relationship when the hurt from the previous one is still fresh.

Little boats must stay near shore. Little tender toes girls must stay away from big men. When the whole thing over all that is going to left is some saw dust and feather.

THE DELEGATED AUTHORITY OF MEN:

Ephesians 5:23-AV For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body. Ephesians 5:24-AV Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so [let] the wives [be] to their own husbands in every thing.

1Peter 3:1-AV Likewise, ye wives, [be] in subjection to your own husbands; that, if any obey not the word, they also may without the word be won by the conversation of the wives; 1Peter 3:2-AV While they behold your chaste conversation [coupled] with fear. 1Peter 3:3-AV Whose adorning let it not be that outward [adorning] of plaiting the hair, and of wearing of gold, or of putting on of apparel;

1Peter 3:4-AV But [let it be] the hidden man of the heart, in that which is not corruptible, [even the ornament] of a meek and quiet spirit, which is in the sight of God of great price. 1Peter 3:5-AV For after this manner in the old time the holy women also, who trusted in God, adorned themselves, being in subjection unto their own husbands: 1Peter 3:6-AV Even as Sara obeyed Abraham, calling him lord: whose daughters ye are, as long as ye do well, and are not afraid with any amazement.

1Peter 3:7-AV Likewise, ye husbands, dwell with [them] according to knowledge, giving honour unto the wife, as unto the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life; that your prayers be not hindered.

Proverbs 22:3-AV A prudent [man] foreseeth the evil, and hideth himself: but the simple pass on, and are punished.

Proverbs 27:12-AV A prudent [man] foreseeth the evil, [and] hideth himself; [but] the simple pass on, [and] are punished.

Proverbs 24:4-AV And by knowledge shall the chambers be filled with all precious and pleasant riches.

Proverbs 11:9-AV An hypocrite with [his] mouth destroyeth his neighbour: but through knowledge shall the just be delivered.

Jeremiah 33:3-AV Call unto me, and I will answer thee, and shew thee great and mighty things, which thou knowest not.

THE END

HOW DOES A PERSON BECOME A CHRISTIANS.

How does a person become a Christians and are sure that they re save? Since all are born into sin since Adam.

Romans 3:23 (KJV) For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God;

Galatians 3:22 (KJV) But the scripture hath concluded all under sin, that the promise by faith of Jesus Christ might be given to them that believe.

THE SINNER MUST BELIEVE THAT GOD IS.

Hebrews 11:6 (KJV) But without faith it is impossible to please him: for he that cometh to God must believe that he is, and that he is a rewarder of them that diligently seek him.

THE SINNER MUST BELIEVE THAT GOD IS READY TO FORGIVE HIM.

Isaiah 55:7 (KJV)Let the wicked forsake his way, and the unrighteous man his thoughts: and let him return unto the Lord, and he will have mercy upon him; and to our God, for he will abundantly pardon.

THE SINNER MUST BELIEVE THAT CHRIST DIED FOR HIM.

Romans 5:6 (KJV) For when we were yet without strength, in due time Christ died for the ungodly.

Romans 5:8 (KJV)But God commendeth his love toward us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us.

1 Cor. 15:3-8 (KJV) For I delivered unto you first of all that which I also received, how that Christ died for our sins according to the scriptures; [4] And that he was buried, and that he rose again the third day according to the scriptures: [5] And that he was seen of Cephas, then of the twelve: [6] After that, he was seen of above five hundred brethren at once; of whom the greater part remain unto this present, but some are fallen asleep. [7] After that, he was seen of James; then of all the apostles. [8] And last of all he was seen of me also, as of one born out of due time.

The sinner must believe that God can keep him save.

Ephes. 3:20 (KJV) Now unto him that is able to do exceeding abundantly above all that we ask or think, according to the power that worketh in us,

Jude 1:24 (KJV) Now unto him that is able to keep you from falling, and to present you faultless before the presence of his glory with exceeding joy,

PERFECTING THE SAINTS IS A WORK OF GOD.

1 Peter 5:10 (KJV) But the God of all grace, who hath called us unto his eternal glory by Christ Jesus, after that ye have suffered a while, make you perfect, establish, strengthen, settle you.

THE SINNER MUST KNOW THAT ONLY JESUS CAN SAVE THEM.

Acts 4:12 (KJV) Neither is there salvation in any other: for there is none other name under heaven given among men, whereby we must be saved.

THE SINNER MUST MAKE A DECISION TODAY.

Isaiah 1:18 (KJV) Come now, and let us reason together, saith the Lord: though your sins be as scarlet, they shall be as white as snow; though they be red like crimson, they shall be as wool.

2 Cor. 6:2 (KJV) (For he saith, I have heard thee in a time accepted, and in the day of salvation have I succoured thee: behold, now is the accepted time; behold, now is the day of salvation.)

BOW YOUR HEAD AND PRAY THIS PRAYER.

Lord I am a sinner and need your salvation. Forgive all my sins. I accept your son Jesus as my savior today.

DROP ALL PRE-CONCEIVE IDEAS OF CHRISTIANSITY.

Drop all preconceived ideas of Christianity because these conflict with the reality of Christianity. The lord will live the life through you day by day. You do not drop things from your life on your own. The spirit of God will walk you out of sins in his own time.

FIRST HUMBLING YOU.

Ephes. 2:8-9 (KJV) For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: [9] Not of works, lest any man should boast.

If you stop sins and get holy before God’s timing you will begin to boast how it is your own magnetism got you so far, then you became a source of discouragement to others. Therefore, you are going to stuck upon a sin or two. The sin always getting the better of you. This will push you to always accept God’s grace, and to see your own frailness.

1 John 1:8 (KJV) If we say that we have no sin, we deceive ourselves, and the truth is not in us.

TO CONTINUE GROWING IN GOD.

1 Peter 2:2 (KJV) As newborn babes, desire the sincere milk of the word, that ye may grow thereby:

2 Peter 1:5-10 (NKJV) But also for this very reason, giving all diligence, add to your faith virtue, to virtue knowledge, 6 to knowledge self-control, to self-control perseverance, to perseverance godliness, 7 to godliness brotherly kindness, and to brotherly kindness love. 8 For if these things are yours and abound, you will be neither barren nor unfruitful in the knowledge of our Lord Jesus Christ. 9 For he who lacks these things is shortsighted, even to blindness, and has forgotten that he was cleansed from his old sins. 10 Therefore, brethren, be even more diligent to make your call and election sure, for if you do these things you will never stumble.

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FINDING OUT YOUR CALLING

When I was newly save, the believers always, ask me if I know the will of God for my life! I never really know what they were talking about. Every person that was saved had a mission and a gift. However, because you are just a babe in Christ you do not know any of these. As you go on with the lord his will for you will unfolds day bay day. Do not run off and make any big commitment. Your mate has to be tailor made for you by God. You are now a citizen of heaven. Heaven does not rule by democracy. You cannot serve God with democratic mind set.

WHAT YOU MUST DROP OFF.

Hebrews 12:1 (Living Bible) Since we have such a huge crowd of men of faith watching us from the grandstands, let us strip off anything that slows us down or holds us back, and especially those sins that wrap themselves so tightly around our feet and trip us up; and let us run with patience the particular race that God has set before us.

Ephes. 4:31 (Living Bible) Stop being mean, bad-tempered, and angry. Quarreling, harsh words, and dislike of others should have no place in your lives.

Col. 3:8 (Living Bible) but now is the time to cast off and throw away all these rotten garments of anger, hatred, cursing, and dirty language.

GET A GOOD BIBLE, FIND A GOOD CHURCH.

One of the best Bibles out there is the New King James Version. Dake’s annotated Bible is very good. Next, you need a living bible to make some thing simple.

Hebrews 10:25 (Living Bible) Let us not neglect our church meetings, as some people do, but encourage and warn each other, especially now that the day of his coming back again is drawing near.

DROP THE BAD HABITS.

Drop the smoking, even though we cannot prove it to be a sin. You are going to be sitting down beside other church going people; they do not want to be smelling the odor from smoking on you.

PROTECTING YOURSELF FROM BEING SPOILED BY MAN.

Col. 2:8 (KJV) Beware lest any man spoil you through philosophy and vain deceit, after the tradition of men, after the rudiments of the world, and not after Christ.

Hebrews 13:9 (KJV) Be not carried about with divers and strange doctrines. For it is a good thing that the heart be established with grace; not with meats, which have not profited them that have been occupied therein.

Seven Ways that People Can Spoil Christians:

1. Through philosophy (Col. 2:8)

2. Through vain deceit (Col. 2:4,8,18-19)

3. Through human traditions (Col. 2:8)

4. Through human religion and world principles contrary to the gospel (Col. 2:8,14-23; note, §Galatians 4:3)

5. Through circumcision (Col. 2:11-13; Acts 15:1; Romans 4:9-16; Galatians 5:1-11)

6. Through the law of Moses, demanding observance of the laws on meats, drinks, holy days, new moons, feasts, and sabbaths (Col. 2:14-17)

7. Through cults that puff up and imitate the gospel (Col. 2:18-23)

By all these means, unsuspecting souls are being carried off as plunder and booty by false teachers. The founders of false religions and human philosophies which pamper the flesh and give their victims elated feelings of importance make an appeal to them.

Christianity is loaded down with some false concept. Some little believe system, which are spread by false believers. One of such teaching is that you must “Look like Christians” How does Christians look? Genuine Christianity is not an external thing but of the heart and spirit.

Micah 6:8 (KJV) He hath shewed thee, O man, what is good; and what doth the Lord require of thee, but to do justly, and to love mercy, and to walk humbly with thy God?

When cults capture a newly converted Christians, the cult first job on that new believer is to close their mind. Preventing the new believer from reading any material from other churches. So that new believer will never get out of their trap.

YOUR HORMONE DOES NOT STOP WORKING WITH CHRISTIANSITY.

Philip. 3:20-21 (KJV) For our conversation is in heaven; from whence also we look for the Saviour, the Lord Jesus Christ: [21] Who shall change our vile body, that it may be fashioned like unto his glorious body, according to the working whereby he is able even to subdue all things unto himself.

Romans 8:23 (KJV) And not only they, but ourselves also, which have the firstfruits of the Spirit, even we ourselves groan within ourselves, waiting for the adoption, to wit, the redemption of our body.

Our bodies were not save at conversion. The work of redemption took place in your spirit man. Our body will be redeemed or still waiting for redemption. According to Philip 3:20-21 and Romans 8:23. You are still going to have urges. You have to present your body to the lord as a living sacrifice. Not dead one. Living sacrifice give trouble, you will have trouble keeping that body tied to the altar. However, as you and I grow in the lord what seem impossible will be quite possible.

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Rev. James McBean. Sr Was born in Jamaica west Indies. Bachelor In Theology. Masters in Christians counseling.

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