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"HOW TO DEAL WITH DIFFICULT CO-WORKERS"

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AUTHOR: Rev J.A.McBean Sr

Copyright C 1998 Library of Congress Washington.D.C.20559

T he job market is drying up, and long time employees are getting very scaredy-cat, and new employees is seeing as threats. The work place is about to exploded in violence. If you do not have coping skills, and skills to avoid conflicts, you would not stand a chance in the work place of today. The back-stabbing, the pit-digging, and throat-cutting is worst than what we saw on TV. Very little production is being put out, due to these childish, work place squabbles.

One thing you need to remember always, is this. You did not take that job for friendship. You were hired to do a service in exchange for money, and other benefits. If you get friendship, and love on the job, it is a plus. You took that job to further your career. Remember that always.

Difficult co-workers are not only problem to other employees, but are the ones that cause the company to go bankrupt. These troublesome employees drive away potential, and profitable employees, and all that left to the company are the unprofitable.

New employees coming into a company is a sign that the old ones is about to get weeded out. The old dead trees is about to be cut down. Many of them do not even know that the companies are webbed with cameras. The old entrapment law prevents management from firing employees’ base on hidden cameras, but at lease, they know who are making trouble.

Therefore, long time employees to a company are very scared of new employees. New employees cause the overtime money to diminish. In addition, new employees are more trained and more degree. They are more fresh and ready to work, because they are full of big dreams. Some have student load to repay, payments, which will, soon kicked in. On one job, I worked as a diesel mechanic; my supervisor was fixing a truck that always goes dead on the road. I take out a little gadget out of my tool box. I buy it from J.C.Withny for $10. This tool shows me that the alternator is dead. My supervisor laughs me to scorned, hissed his teeth, shuck his shoulder, and walk off. One month later after many more down time and towing fees. The company has to change the alternator.

GET YOU OUT BEFORE YOU GET THE TIME TO SHOW YOUR SKILLS:

The long time employees came up with a plan to get the new employees in trouble before they get the time to show their skills. The first phase of the war is a direct attack upon the new employees. “Bullying” “Sarcasms, name calling, and cold shouldering.” This is to tell the new employees that he she is not a part of the group. “You should not be here” The first thing to bear in mind is this. “Cold shouldering is to your benefit, it keep you out of the hears says that is going on among them, and it keep you from picking up bad habits from them.

Habits, which will down you in weeks to come. Cold shoulder keep you by yourself, which give you time to meditate on learning the job quickly and efficiently. As for the “sarcasm and name calling” Take the trouble makers by himself or herself and tell them to stop it. Be careful not to use tone of voice, body language, or threats. Remember that the bullying is to get you to act up, blew up or throw a tantrum. This will minimize your time at the company. Do not make the conversation, be more than one minutes. You only want the person to know, that you are on to them.

I usually allowed them to slap me three times, and then I mention the first time they did it. The second time and the third. Now he or she knows that I am keeping tract of it. If the problem do not stop go the bass and make your complain. You must never fight the battle alone. Repeat, you must never fight the battle alone.

TAKING THE BULL BY THE TAIL:

“Early intervention can nip bullying in the bud before it escalates into an established pattern, one resulting in high company costs. The problem is that most bully victims keep their mouths shut, whispering their horrid experiences to close friends rather than higher-ups.

http://www.livescience.com/strangenews/061031_office_bully.html

THE BATTLE GOING UNDER GROUND:

Now the battle is going to take a turn for the worst, it is going to go under ground. This also is good for the new employees. New employees need a certain amount of ingenuity on the job, they need to be on their toes, and this is what going to keep them sharp. When you have enemies at your backs, you have to learn to develop a six sense. You must be able to feel when a sniper is zooming in on you. A woman can tell when the man behind her is looking at her backside, just by feeling his eyes. You the new worker must develop this sense. You must know when they are watching you and are talking about you.

“Workplace bullying can include “screaming, cursing, spreading vicious rumors, destroying the target’s property or work product, excessive criticism, and sometimes hitting, slapping, and shoving.” Subtle behaviors, such as silent treatment, disregard of requests and exclusion from meetings, count as bullying.”

Bully-proof office

“How can you take the bite out of a bully-fied office? “An important first step of changing workplace bullying, is helping people to understand that it's more than just kid stuff,” Tracy told LiveScience. http://www.livescience.com/strangenews/061031_office_bully.html

DO NOT RUN:

Do not run from a job, until you get a better job. Do not argue, do not threaten, do not ridicule, and do not try to be the boss. Do not go on the job site with a soft back. Do not take every little comment personally. Do not set out to get any body in trouble. A trouble maker today could be lover tomorrow.

STIGMATIZED YOUR NAME:

The most dangerous part of work place problem is when the others cannot get you out or get you down. Therefore, they put a stigma on your name. :Stigmatized: A symbol of disgrace and discredit. You have to have good qualities to pull out from under this. If you think stigma do not work, you better wake up.

WATCH OUT FOR A SET UP:

When a co-worker come, to put me in my place for a misdeed, I sent them to complain to the supervisor, or manager. “ let the authority on th job come talk to me.” The reason for this. If I open my mouth and said any thing, they went back and cry to the boss, saying how I was rude.

These last days, I sit there and listen, without answering a word, then go straight to higher up. It look mean, but they cannot say I threatened them with gun like what one lady said. Let, face it, there is a secret war going on in the work place. Get your degrees, keep going forwards with your education, people of ambitions will always find a way to survive.

DO NOT SEX NOR SLEEP ON THE JOB:

I take my half hour lunch time, and go get some shut eyes in my car. I have Instrument that alarms every twenty five minutes. If a woman want to give you some stuff and she cannot make time off the job, consider it to a set up.

IN THIS WORLD THERE IS NO PLACE FOR THE WEAK:

In the this world, people will never leave you alone until they know that you will go to the extreme. I have seen people park their car right on top of my lawn, only because they think I will take it and shut up. Stop go about looking for love, especially in the work place.

SOMETIME ONLY CHRIST JESUS CAN HELP US:

Matthew 6:33-AV But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you.

Isaiah 55:6-AV Seek ye the LORD while he may be found, call ye upon him while he is near: Isaiah 55:7-AV Let the wicked forsake his way, and the unrighteous man his thoughts: and let him return unto the LORD, and he will have mercy upon him; and to our God, for he will abundantly pardon.

LOOK AT THE BENEFITS OF BECOMING A CHRISTIAN:

How does a person become a Christian, and are sure that he/she is save? First the person must know that he/she is a sinner and need deliverance from the lord.

Romans 3:23 (KJV) for all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God;

Galatians 3:22 (KJV) But the scripture hath concluded all under sin, that the promise by faith of Jesus Christ might be given to them that believe.

THE SINNER MUST BELIEVE THAT THERE IS A GOD:

Hebrews 11:6 NKJV But without faith it is impossible to please Him, for he who comes to God must believe that He is, and that He is a rewarder of those who diligently seek Him.

THE SINNER MUST BELIEVE THAT GOD IS READY TO FORGIVE HIM:

Isaiah 55:7 (KJV)Let the wicked forsake his way, and the unrighteous man his thoughts: and let him return unto the Lord, and he will have mercy upon him; and to our God, for he will abundantly pardon.

THE SINNER MUST BELIEVE THAT CHRIST DIED FOR HIM:

Romans 5:6 (KJV) For when we were yet without strength, in due time Christ died for the ungodly.

Romans 5:8 (KJV)But God commendeth his love toward us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us.

1 Cor. 15:3-8 (KJV) For I delivered unto you first of all that which I also received, how that Christ died for our sins according to the scriptures; [4] And that he was buried, and that he rose again the third day according to the scriptures: [5] And that he was seen of Cephas, then of the twelve: [6] After that, he was seen of above five hundred brethren at once; of whom the greater part remain unto this present, but some are fallen asleep. [7] After that, he was seen of James; then of all the apostles. [8] And last of all he was seen of me also, as of one born out of due time.

MUST BELIEVE THAT GOD CAN KEEP HIM:

Ephes. 3:20 (KJV) Now unto him that is able to do exceeding abundantly above all that we ask or think, according to the power that worketh in us,

Jude 1:24 (KJV) Now unto him that is able to keep you from falling, and to present you faultless before the presence of his glory with exceeding joy,

PERFECTING THE SAINTS IS A WORK OF GOD:

1 Peter 5:10 (KJV) But the God of all grace, who hath called us unto his eternal glory by Christ Jesus, after that ye have suffered a while, make you perfect, establish, strengthen, settle you.

THE SINNER MUST KNOW THAT ONLY JESUS CAN SAVE THEM:

Acts 4:12 (KJV) Neither is there salvation in any other: for there is none other name under heaven given among men, whereby we must be saved.

THE SINNER MUST MAKE A DECISION TODAY:

Isaiah 1:18 (KJV) Come now, and let us reason together, saith the Lord: though your sins be as scarlet, they shall be as white as snow; though they be red like crimson, they shall be as wool.

2 Cor. 6:2 (KJV) (For he saith, I have heard thee in a time accepted, and in the day of salvation have I succoured thee: behold, now is the accepted time; behold, now is the day of salvation.)

BOW YOUR HEAD AND PRAY THIS PRAYER:

Lord I am a sinner and need your salvation. Forgive all my sins. I accept your son Jesus as my savior today.

We can sing with the song writer" I rise walk in heaven’s own light above the world and sin with heart made pure and garments white, and Christ en-throned with in. The cleansing stream I see I see I plunge, and O It cleans-eth me. O praise the Lord, it cleans-eth me, it cleans-eth me yes, cleans-eth me."

DROP ALL PRE-CONCEIVE IDEAS OF CHRISTIANITY:

Drop all preconceived ideas of Christianity because these conflict with the reality of Christianity. The lord will live the life through you day by day. You do not drop things from your life on your own. The spirit of God will walk you out of sins in his own time.

FIRST HUMBLING YOU:

Ephes. 2:8-9 (KJV)For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: [9] Not of works, lest any man should boast.

If you stop sins and get holy before God’s timing you will begin to boast how it is your own magnetism got you so far, then you became a source of discouragement to others. Therefore, you are going to stuck upon a sin or two. The sin always getting the better of you. This will push you to always accept God’s grace, and to see your own frailness.

1 John 1:8 (KJV) If we say that we have no sin, we deceive ourselves, and the truth is not in us.

TO CONTINUE GROWING IN GOD:

1 Peter 2:2 (KJV) As newborn babes, desire the sincere milk of the word, that ye may grow thereby:

2 Peter 1:5-10 (NKJV) But also for this very reason, giving all diligence, add to your faith virtue, to virtue knowledge, 6 to knowledge self-control, to self-control perseverance, to perseverance godliness, 7 to godliness brotherly kindness, and to brotherly kindness love. 8 For if these things are yours and abound, you will be neither barren nor unfruitful in the knowledge of our Lord Jesus Christ. 9 For he who lacks these things is shortsighted, even to blindness, and has forgotten that he was cleansed from his old sins. 10 Therefore, brethren, be even more diligent to make your call and election sure, for if you do these things you will never stumble.

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FINDING OUT YOUR CALLING:

When I was newly save, the believers always, ask me if I know the will of God for my life! I never really know what they were talking about. Every person that was saved had a mission and a gift. However, because you are just a babe in Christ you do not know any of these. As you go on with the lord his will for you will unfolds day bay day. Do not run off and make any big commitment. Your mate has to be tailor made for you by God. You are now a citizen of heaven. Heaven does not rule by democracy. You cannot serve God with democratic mind set.

WHAT YOU MUST DROP OFF:

Hebrews 12:1 (Living Bible) Since we have such a huge crowd of men of faith watching us from the grandstands, let us strip off anything that slows us down or holds us back, and especially those sins that wrap themselves so tightly around our feet and trip us up; and let us run with patience the particular race that God has set before us.

Ephes. 4:31 (Living Bible) Stop being mean, bad-tempered, and angry. Quarreling, harsh words, and dislike of others should have no place in your lives.

Col. 3:8 (Living Bible) but now is the time to cast off and throw away all these rotten garments of anger, hatred, cursing, and dirty language.

GET A GOOD BIBLE, FIND A GOOD CHURCH:

One of the best Bibles out there is the New King James Version. Dake’s annotated Bible is very good. Next, you need a living bible to make some thing simple.

Hebrews 10:25 (Living Bible) Let us not neglect our church meetings, as some people do, but encourage and warn each other, especially now that the day of his coming back again is drawing near.

PROTECTING YOURSELF FROM BEING SPOILED BY MAN:

Col. 2:8 (KJV)Beware lest any man spoil you through philosophy and vain deceit, after the tradition of men, after the rudiments of the world, and not after Christ.

Hebrews 13:9 (KJV) Be not carried about with divers and strange doctrines. For it is a good thing that the heart be established with grace; not with meats, which have not profited them that have been occupied therein.

Seven Ways that People Can Spoil Christians:

1. Through philosophy (Col. 2:8)

2. Through vain deceit (Col. 2:4,8,18-19)

3. Through human traditions (Col. 2:8)

4. Through human religion and world principles contrary to the gospel (Col. 2:8,14-23; note, §Galatians 4:3)

5. Through circumcision (Col. 2:11-13; Acts 15:1; Romans 4:9-16; Galatians 5:1-11)

6. Through the law of Moses, demanding observance of the laws on meats, drinks, holy days, new moons, feasts, and sabbaths (Col. 2:14-17)

7. Through cults that puff up and imitate the gospel (Col. 2:18-23)

By all these means, unsuspecting souls are being carried off as plunder and booty by false teachers. The founders of false religions and human philosophies which pamper the flesh and give their victims elated feelings of importance make an appeal to them.

Christianity is loaded down with some false concept. Some little believe system, which are spread by false believers. One of such teaching is that you must “Look like Christians” How does Christians look? Genuine Christianity is not an external thing but of the heart and spirit.

Micah 6:8 (KJV)He hath shewed thee, O man, what is good; and what doth the Lord require of thee, but to do justly, and to love mercy, and to walk humbly with thy God?

When cults capture a newly converted Christians, the cult first job on that new believer is to close their mind. Preventing the new believer from reading any material from other churches. So that new believer will never get out of their trap.

YOUR HORMONE DOES NOT STOP WORKING WITH CHRISTIANITY:

Philip. 3:20-21 (KJV)For our conversation is in heaven; from whence also we look for the Saviour, the Lord Jesus Christ: [21] Who shall change our vile body, that it may be fashioned like unto his glorious body, according to the working whereby he is able even to subdue all things unto himself.

Romans 8:23 (KJV) And not only they, but ourselves also, which have the firstfruits of the Spirit, even we ourselves groan within ourselves, waiting for the adoption, to wit, the redemption of our body.

Our bodies were not save at conversion. The work of redemption took place in your spirit man. Our body will be redeemed at the return of our lord. We are still waiting for the redemption of our body.

According to Philip 3:20-21 and Romans 8:23. You are still going to have urges. You have to present your body to the lord as a living sacrifice. Not dead one. Living sacrifice give trouble, you will have trouble keeping that body tied to the altar. However, as you and I grow in the lord what seem impossible will be quite possible.

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