HOW TO GROW UP SUCCESSFUL CHILDREN
By Dr. James. A McBean D.Th., MCC
Copyright © 2008 Library of Congress
Washington.D.C.20559
I t is important to know that children are people too. Children also grow up and remember what adults and parents has done to them. One of my female employers, told me that her father usually sexually abusing her. Parents must know that children grow up and remember.
No child will come to success until the parents instill a sense of worth and a sense of purpose in that child. Any time this is installed into that child, he she will never stop tries until they fulfil such purposes. My wife and I had four children and three live. All three finishes high schools and finish collage. All three had bachelor degrees and higher. I told them first daughter that she must never leave our home and go living in a rent house. She must move out right into her own home. She never paid one month rent. She buys her own home and move right into in it. I told my lost daughter the same thing. At twenty-five she was able to buy her own home and move right into it. My son work overseas and that was the reason why he did not buy his own home.
HOW TO TALK SO CHILDREN LISTEN
Isa 28:9 Whom shall He teach knowledge? And whom shall He make to understand doctrine? Those weaned from the milk and drawn from the breasts. Isa 28:10 For precept must be on precept, precept on precept; line on line, line on line; here a little, there a little;
Reasons with the child, use no tone of voice, and no commanding attitude. Give the child a reason for every thing you told them. Do not walk with your pants down at your feet like those boys in the street. The reason why you should not do that: The idea comes from prison. When a prisoner is afraid that other men might beat him up. He wears his pants like that to show other prisoners that he has decided to become a girl so as to avoid getting a beating. Talk to the child like two adults. Use no cursing, and no name calling. Never shake the child, and you must never use bad predictions at the child.
GUARD YOUR ASSOCIATION
Pro 13:20 He that walketh with wise men shall be wise: but a companion of fools shall be destroyed.
You are who you walked with. We are just like the people’s we hangs out with. You are in the same car with a bunch of store’s robber that is what you are. You the so-call good child is just the mud guard for the bad ones. You going down, so they can remain free, to continue their plundering upon society.
OUR PERCEPTION OF DISCIPLINING A CHILD IS WRONG
Pro 29:15 The rod and reproof give wisdom: but a child left to himself bringeth his mother to shame.
Our perception or beating a child is different from what the bible is talking about. If the ground work was laid properly, belting would never need to be use. Punishing a child only cause the child to become very vindictive. Nothing is greater than sitting the child down and reasoning intelligently with that child. Even if some kind of punishment is brought in, you still need to sit the child down and explain the reason why, you as a parent have to condescend to such foolish tactics.
DO NOT ROBBED A CHILD OF HIS OR HER CHILDHOOD
This is where religious parents went wrong. They push the religion down upon the children and use it to rob them of their childhood. Children who are converted to Christianity will still behave like children. They will still want to go play and go watch the movies. They will still have girl friend and boy friends. A father should never discipline his girl children in the absent of the mother. I have never gone into my daughter’s room. Not once! I spoke to the mother and she spoke to them. One man was beating his daughter and the girl told me he his holding on to her breasts. She is screaming out saying. “Let go off my breasts”
INSTILL DIVINE PRINCIPLES THAT PROMOTE PEACE IN THE MARRIAGE.
Numbers 30:3-7 (Living Bible) "If a woman promises the Lord to do or not do something, and she is still a girl at home in her father's home, [4] and her father hears that she has made a vow with penalties, but says nothing, then her vow shall stand. [5] But if her father refuses to let her make the vow, or feels that the penalties she has agreed to are too harsh, then her promise will automatically become invalid. Her father must state his disagreement on the first day he hears about it; and then Jehovah will forgive her because her father would not let her do it. [6] "If she takes a vow or makes a foolish pledge, and later marries, [7] and her husband learns of her vow and says nothing on the day he hears of it, her vow shall stand.
Numbers 30:8 (Living Bible) But if her husband refuses to accept her vow or foolish pledge, his disagreement makes it void, and Jehovah will forgive her.
Sometime Only Jesus Can Help Us
Acts 4:12 (KJV)Neither is there salvation in any other: for there is none other name under heaven given among men, whereby we must be saved.
Romans 5:6 (KJV) For when we were yet without strength, in due time Christ died for the ungodly. Romans 5:7 (KJV) For scarcely for a righteous man will one die: yet peradventure for a good man some would even dare to die. Romans 5:8 (KJV) But God commendeth his love toward us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us. Romans 5:9 (KJV) Much more then, being now justified by his blood, we shall be saved from wrath through him. Romans 5:10 (KJV) For if, when we were enemies, we were reconciled to God by the death of his Son, much more, being reconciled, we shall be saved by his life. Romans 5:11 (KJV) And not only so, but we also joy in God through our Lord Jesus Christ, by whom we have now received the atonement.
Matthew 6:33-AV But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you.
Isaiah 55:6-AV Seek ye the LORD while he may be found, call ye upon him while he is near: Isaiah 55:7-AV Let the wicked forsake his way, and the unrighteous man his thoughts: and let him return unto the LORD, and he will have mercy upon him; and to our God, for he will abundantly pardon.
The Bearers Of The Mind Sword
