FAT WOMEN CAN GET MEN JUST LIKE ANY OTHER WOMEN
By Dr. James. A McBean D.Th., MCC
Copyright © 2008 Library of Congress
Washington.D.C.20559
A lady walk into my office, she complains that if she could just loose fifteen more pounds, things would be ok. All the little meat that supposes to be on her something, to make it plum, and worth looking at she is trying to get rid of it. Women put themselves through all that pain and sorrows because they do not know what men want from women. In this article we want to show you how to get that man. Sit down now for a roller coaster ride.
Years ago while trying to get married, I end up got dump several times. Every time a girl dumps me it was always by the means of a letter. The girl that carries the letter to me was always the same person.
I found out that I would never get a woman to marry in that church, so I begin to look a wife in another church. I finally got married. Twenty years later, after I had children and grand children. I decide to examine the letters and found out that all the letters was written by the same person. The girl that brought me those letters was the one that wrote them all. She broke up all my relationship, by impersonating the women and wrote letters in their name, pretending they gave her the letters to give me.
She did all that because she wanted me, but what bother me is that she never gave any indication that she like me, in fact, she pretend that she could never want a man. People did not get what they want because they did not go about getting it the right way, or have the nerve to go get it. I have seen countless numbers of fat women get married and have successful marriages. You cannot tell yourself that no body wants you.
YOU MUST NEVER BE ASHAMED OF YOUR BODY.
Lesson number one. A fat woman wanting to get a man must never be ashamed of her body. Never let the way you think you look cause you to have a low self-images of yourself.
She must know how to dress, fat women do not look fat in big clothing. Dress goes better for fat woman, than pants.
The second group of lesson. The fat woman must try to get a man that is obsessed with the fat. Do not slim down to get a man that love skinny woman, or the looks orientated men. It is going to come back to bite you. When you get fat again due to childbirth he run away and leave you. It is important to win a man that like you the way you are, so you will not have to make any changes to your personality or life. Because, changes take time and it hurt. Getting slim after you get fat take a lot of work. You want a man who does not mind it. If you have hair on your hands and feet, you should not shave it; there a lot of men like women who have some male features.
All the men there is can be classified into about six different groups. There is the Mamas man, the looks orientated man, the man for hire or gold digger, the sex orientated man, and the family orientated man. Out of all these groups of men the only group that a fat woman would not do well in are the looks orientated group of man. And, this depend on what country the woman is living in. Because some country, the men want woman with big bottom, big hip and small waist. In USA people are going by what they saw on the TV. But the TV is not real life. Those social skinny women pay a great price for that skinniness. People bodies need a certain amount of fat. Vital energy is stores in fat. Big bones woman should never try to get skinny, because she will not be able to cut down her skeleton. Some abnormal fat are cause from thyroid problem. What a fat woman needs to work on, is her belly flop.
To remove belly flop is easy today. However, it is important to know that the group of men that goes after fat woman, is not necessarily looking on her fatness, these men is more concern with her vagina, and not her belly flap.
He attitudes, availability, sense ability and sex ability is what these are concern with and not her fat. I once have a fat girlfriend that I have to drop, and it has nothing to do with her fatness, if fact it was the meat that drive me to her, she was also horny as hell, she would jump me anywhere, except in the light because she scare of men seeing her body, and all that fat. I could not get her to accept herself and let things change gradually.
WHAT CAUSES BIG BELLY AND FAT!!
I found out that a lot of big belly is due to bowels, and bowels movement retention. If you are eating three meals per day you should have at least one bowel movement each morning. If it is coming in it must be going out. If your body is not eating, sleeping, sexing, and dunging at a regular time clock time. It is not working well. One of my coworker was always bitchy, she and me caught up several time almost in a verbal fight. One day she broke down and told me that no body want to made love to her, that is why she is like this all the time.
This is a skinny woman, so you see the problem is not fat. Fat women feel ashamed of their body and that cause men to think that they have no sex drives, and stay way from them.
WHERE TO FIND MEN THAT LOVE FAT WOMEN.
Jamaican men love fat women. Many African men love fat women. And most black men on a whole seem to love fat women. You see a lot of black brothers walking around with their fat white wife. The thing I love with white people, it this, if they want something they take it.
The Internet is a good source help, message board, clubs, and dating house is available on the web. All you have to do is fill out a profile, and put it up with your picture. That is where every body is going in the future. The man do not need to spent ten years to get to know you, when he can spent ten minutes read your profile and know what you are looking for in a man.
If you meet somebody on the internet, the first day you are going to meat them in real, you will need to meat them at a public places, and if possible with friends. And you need to make them know that, that is how it is going to go. Until you get comfortable with them. Do not put up other people's picture claming to be you, because sooner or later the person will know that you are lying. That is if you expect to meet the person one day.
GET YOUR SEX PROBLEM FIX.
A woman can get a man regardless. However, if she has no hormone, and do not feel for sex, she will have to have money so as to catch a man for hire. Fat woman must be able to outdo the skinny women in order to hold on to what she get. Men find it hard to stay on the belly of a fat woman, the woman on top position is better for a fat woman. She stoops over the man, in a sitting up position where her weight is not fully on him. If the man role off that belly you might never see him again.
LEARNING TO GIVE GOOD SIGNALS.
Giving signals is the most vital part of getting a relationship up and running. In most cases woman do not even need to give signals. You saw the man looking at you.
"HOW TO GET A PROPOSAL FROM A MAN WITH JUST THREE QUESTIONS"
Every woman has the ability to know what kind of look she is getting from a man. If it is a scorn, a like, a love or lust looks, a woman can tell. She can also tell what part of her body the man is looking at. You see a man looking at you; you must try to decipher the looks.
After you are sure what kind of look it is. If it is a like, a love or a lust. He is now ready for the first question. #1 Hey John Wayne! Do you like what you see? Or does what you see please you?
This is going to open up a conversation. Within two are so minutes into the conversation. He is now ready for the second question #2 what kind of work do you do? If he says "I am a mechanic" You could say. I always want to know how to change my oil. #3 could you teach me?
What you are doing now is setting him up for a date, without him even knowing it. If it is lust, like or love, he will be glad for the opportunity to get with you. If you have a car you could have him over to your house in a day or two. When he arrives, you offer him a something to drink. If your car is working find, he does not have to pull any thing but goes through the motion. You can them show him a movies, and get to know each other. From here on word it is up to you.
KNOW WHAT KIND OF RELATIONSHIP IS AVAILABLE.
There is several kind of relationship, as you will see on our web sites. Friendships, marriage, common law marriage, buisness sex. Money sex exchange, and booty call kind of relationship. If the man is already living with somebody the marriage relationship is already taken. If he is living with another woman the common law marriage relationship is already taken. You just have to take what you can get if you have nothing. However, you cannot be the last one to come in there then try to drive out who was there before you. If you cannot share go get your own. However, keep in touch.
EXCHANGE EMAIL, OR PHONE NUMBER.
You must be available, you must be able to be found.
You can now exchange names, phone number and most of all E-mail address. Do not wait until your are desperate for a man to look one. The desperation will cause you to made bad choice, and pick up mess up men. Getting a man is one thing, keeping a man is another thing, that is why you will need to get my book, title" How to get a man and keep him"
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Let us face the fact, no matter how much education we had on a subject we can go out there and made the worst mistakes of our life, that cause us dearly. Only Jesus Christ can help us with our decision-making.
Proverbs 3:6 In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths.
WE must begin, continue, and end every work, purpose, and plan with God. Self-sufficiency and self-confidence have been the ruin of mankind ever since the fall. Man's sin has been to live independently of God. True religion consists of full acknowledgement of God in all human affairs (Proverbs 3:5).
Sometime Only Jesus Can Help Us
Acts 4:12 (KJV)Neither is there salvation in any other: for there is none other name under heaven given among men, whereby we must be saved.
Romans 5:6 (KJV) For when we were yet without strength, in due time Christ died for the ungodly. Romans 5:7 (KJV) For scarcely for a righteous man will one die: yet peradventure for a good man some would even dare to die. Romans 5:8 (KJV) But God commendeth his love toward us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us. Romans 5:9 (KJV) Much more then, being now justified by his blood, we shall be saved from wrath through him. Romans 5:10 (KJV) For if, when we were enemies, we were reconciled to God by the death of his Son, much more, being reconciled, we shall be saved by his life. Romans 5:11 (KJV) And not only so, but we also joy in God through our Lord Jesus Christ, by whom we have now received the atonement.
Matthew 6:33-AV But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you.
Isaiah 55:6-AV Seek ye the LORD while he may be found, call ye upon him while he is near: Isaiah 55:7-AV Let the wicked forsake his way, and the unrighteous man his thoughts: and let him return unto the LORD, and he will have mercy upon him; and to our God, for he will abundantly pardon.
The Bearer's Of The "Mind Sword"
