Things A Man Can Do To Prevent Getting His Heart Broken
By Dr. James. A McBean. D.Th., MCC
Copyright © 1998 Library of Congress
Washington.D.C.20559
M any of the unkind things men do to women, is done because the men have gotten their heart broken, and still did not get over it. A man can be broken hearted and became miserable and bitter spirited just Like a woman. The result of a broken heart can make a man stronger,weaker, wiser or more foolish. Broken heartedness can kill a man. It can turn a man into an alcoholic. It can cause a man to shoot himself. Men who think with their penis never live long. Women never lose, and women like men who are easy to fall in love. Because this kind of men is call. "a sugar daddy”
WINNING A WOMEN LOVE IS NOT A SURE THING
A woman is never fully her own. Very few women make their own decisions. The women family continues to make decision for them through their lives. Your relationship with that woman is a strong as the relationship of her weakest friends. This does not mean that her friends told her to leave the man are go astray. Sometime the man warrant what he gets by his own behaviors.
BEING CAUGHT UP INTO A FAMILY SITUATION
There are cases where the mother poison the daughter mind because she want a piece of the action. If you find out that two sisters, and cousins, are competing for you, leave them both. It will never work out, they both will keep poisoning each other mind. You bound to get hurt.
Sirach 42: 13 For Just as moths come from garments, so harm to women comes from women.
Sirach 9:1 be not jealous of the wife of your bosom, lest you teach her to do evil against you.
The New American Bible. Saint Joseph Edition.
GETTING TO KNOW YOUR WIFE’S PASTOR
HAVE A PLAN: HOW TO DEAL WITH GRIEVANCE
DO NOT GET SERIOUS
IF SHE
IS NOT SERIOUS
YOU CANNOT FIND A GOOD MATE ON YOUR OWN
A Pastor can tapered his or her sermons to put down a marriage, if he or she does not like certain member. It Happen all the time. You should visit the church that you wife goes. If the relationship between you and your wife get worst, since the wife begin to visit certain church, you will need to get her into another church. Not another faith, but another church. Sometime, the teaching that she is getting is tapered to work against her husband, on purpose.
You have to have a plan how to deal with gossips. She must tell you, what she hears. “Hear say”
is the number one killer of marriages. Women are born gossipers.
Do not ask for marriage, if she is not ready for it, and indicate it.
Do not put your heart in it, if her heart is not in it.
if her love for you is two mile long, your love for her must not be more than two miles long.
If she cannot come looking for you, some of the time, do not go looking
for her any of the time.
Finding a good mate is impossible without the help of God. If you find one on your own, that relationship will go just like flatus in the summer wind. When you take Jesus as your lord. Even the people that you suppose to meet, is a part of God’s plan for you: You will just walk into your calling.
When I was buying my first house, the address was the same excluding the name of the street and the zip code. When I saw it, I know it was God’s plan and I was going to get it. It will be the same thing when God introduce your mate. However, this does not mean that you must not play your part, in doing the courtship. God will not do Christians courtship, he will only make you bump into each other, and caught each other attention. However, this is another story:
HOW DO YOU KNOW WHEN YOU MEET YOUR WOMAN!
Deut 21:14 (NKJV)---: you shall not treat her brutally, because you have humbled her.
Whenever a man meet his right woman, she will be like freshly dug clay in his hands. One that are “Moldable.” If she cannot confirmed to the man in at (Least) some ways, she is not his.
SHE IS LED-ABLE.
1 Cor 9:5-6 (KJV) Have we not power to lead about a sister, a wife, as well as other apostles, and as the brethren of the Lord, and Cephas? 6 Or I only and Barnabas, have not we power to forbear working?
The Apostle Paul told the Corinthians Christians that he has the power to lead about a wife if he so choose. We can assume therefore, that in the time of the Apostles, it was the men that were suppose to lead the wife, and not the wife, led the husband. If she is your woman, she will follow you.
Sometime Only Jesus Can Help Us
Acts 4:12 (KJV)Neither is there salvation in any other: for there is none other name under heaven given among men, whereby we must be saved.
Romans 5:6 (KJV) For when we were yet without strength, in due time Christ died for the ungodly. Romans 5:7 (KJV) For scarcely for a righteous man will one die: yet peradventure for a good man some would even dare to die. Romans 5:8 (KJV) But God commendeth his love toward us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us. Romans 5:9 (KJV) Much more then, being now justified by his blood, we shall be saved from wrath through him. Romans 5:10 (KJV) For if, when we were enemies, we were reconciled to God by the death of his Son, much more, being reconciled, we shall be saved by his life. Romans 5:11 (KJV) And not only so, but we also joy in God through our Lord Jesus Christ, by whom we have now received the atonement.
Matthew 6:33-AV But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you.
Isaiah 55:6-AV Seek ye the LORD while he may be found, call ye upon him while he is near: Isaiah 55:7-AV Let the wicked forsake his way, and the unrighteous man his thoughts: and let him return unto the LORD, and he will have mercy upon him; and to our God, for he will abundantly pardon.
The Bearer's Of The "Mind Sword"
