How To Deal With People That Know How To Bring The Worst Out Of You
By Dr. James. A McBean D.Th., MCC
Copyright © 2009 Library of Congress Washington.D.C.20559
P eople if you let them can make are brake you. One lady notice that the food she left in her fridge, smell of urine. It happens too often so she decides to set up a hidden camera to see what is happening. The camera caught her landlord, came in her house when she is not there, then take out her food from the fridge and urinate in it.
Another lady share apartment with some women, the other women are wondering how she get her sex life taken care of, because they see no man coming to her, they finally arrive at the conclusion that she is using an artificial penis, to prove their claimed they broken into her room and search up her stuff until they find her dildo. Then they leave it on her pillow so she can know that they have seen it.
These thing small though it seem are very hurtful, so hurtful it can make some people snap and commit sinister crimes that they would not do, or think they could ever do.
There are at least some six groups of people that you will need to be aware of as you interacted with people on a daily basic.
(1) THE PROVOCATIVE.
We see where the Bible said that the man Moses was very meek, yet the people were able to provoke his spirit to the point where he never enters the land of promise. A provocative is one of Satan’s greatest servants; this demonic spirit can provoke both saints and sinners alike with equal success.
Numbers 12:3 (KJV) (Now the man Moses was very meek, above all the men which were upon the face of the earth.)
When dealing with a person who is a provocative, it is not a matter of why, where, and how you are going to kill that person, and get into trouble, it is just a matter of when! A provocative do not stop because they are enjoying antagonizing others.
Proverbs 4:16-17 (KJV) For they sleep not, except they have done mischief; and their sleep is taken away, unless they cause some to fall. [17] For they eat the bread of wickedness, and drink the wine of violence.
Num 11:11-17 (NKJV) So Moses said to the Lord, "Why have You afflicted Your servant? And why have I not found favor in Your sight, that You have laid the burden of all these people on me? 12 Did I conceive all these people? Did I beget them, that You should say to me, 'Carry them in your bosom, as a guardian carries a nursing child,' to the land which You swore to their fathers? 13 Where am I to get meat to give to all these people? For they weep all over me, saying, 'Give us meat, that we may eat.' 14 I am not able to bear all these people alone, because the burden is too heavy for me. 15 If You treat me like this, please kill me here and now--if I have found favor in Your sight--and do not let me see my wretchedness!" 16 So the Lord said to Moses: "Gather to Me seventy men of the elders of Israel, whom you know to be the elders of the people and officers over them; bring them to the tabernacle of meeting, that they may stand there with you. 17 Then I will come down and talk with you there. I will take of the Spirit that is upon you and will put the same upon them; and they shall bear the burden of the people with you, that you may not bear it yourself alone.
DEALING WITH A PROVOCATIVE.
Plan your quick leaving. Bearing in mind that this person is like a mosquito. Do not leave your stuff around for such a person to search. Cell phone with important phone numbers, This person will call them up curse them out and pretend to be you. Make other who life has no meaning deal with such.
THE PROVOCATIVE DAYS ARE NUMBERED.
Sooner or later the provocative hurt somebody who snap, and find away to get even. One man was a trouble in his community; seven men pool their money together and go see a sorcerer. They played him to kill the troublemaker. The sorcerer says he will be dead by twelve noon. Those men say” If he is not dead we are coming back for our money” The sorcerer asks? Is he the man that rode a filly? They say yes? The sorcerer say by twelve noon he will be dead” Twelve noon the troublemaker was riding his young horse when something frightened the horse. The horse bolted, he was thrown from the saddle and his feet caught in the stirrup, his head hit something and he was dead, by twelve noon.
The sorcerer say” Not even the power of God can save him, for God to save him he must make restitutions, which such a man will not do. When people do too much they bank themselves up. My aunt husband always pull tricks on people, one day he pull one trick to many, sorcerer was employed to take him down, they give him a rope to go and kill himself. I prayed with him, he cried, we all mourn with him. The following day he was found dead.
(2) THE NOSEY PERSON.
The nosey person is a problem, he she has no business of their own, and enjoying poking their nose into to hear people affairs.
(3) THE COVETOUS KIND OF PERSON.
The covetous kind of person is another dangerous person, because he she can covet you for an old pants that you buy at a thrift store someplace.
Luke 12:13-15 (KJV) And one of the company said unto him, Master, speak to my brother, that he divide the inheritance with me. [14] And he said unto him, Man, who made me a judge or a divider over you? [15] And he said unto them, Take heed, and beware of covetousness: for a man's life consisteth not in the abundance of the things which he possessed.
You will find covetous people in all walk of life, we see one king of Israel covet one of his subjects and have the man kill.
1 Kings 21:2-4 (NKJV) So Ahab spoke to Naboth, saying, "Give me your vineyard, that I may have it for a vegetable garden, because it is near, next to my house; and for it I will give you a vineyard better than it. Or, if it seems good to you, I will give you its worth in money." 3 But Naboth said to Ahab, "The Lord forbid that I should give the inheritance of my fathers to you!" 4 So Ahab went into his house sullen and displeased because of the word which Naboth the Jezreelite had spoken to him; for he had said, "I will not give you the inheritance of my fathers." And he lay down on his bed, and turned away his face, and would eat no food.
If you read the rest of the story, you will see where they kill the man and let dogs lick his blood.
(4) THE FAULT FINDER.
Then you have the faultfinder group. The faultfinder has a lot of faults but finding faults his or her ways of hiding their faults. This reminded me of one of my coworkers, who complains the most about people sleeping on the job. At the same time the person that she is talking has to be her. The faults finder is trying to make a name at the expense of others.
(5) THE WANT IT ALL KIND OF PEOPLE.
1 Tim. 6:7 (KJV) For we brought nothing into this world, and it is certain we can carry nothing out.
Luke 12:15 (KJV) And he said unto them, Take heed, and beware of covetousness: for a man's life consisteth not in the abundance of the things which he possessed.
Sometime Only Jesus Can Help Us
Acts 4:12 (KJV)Neither is there salvation in any other: for there is none other name under heaven given among men, whereby we must be saved.
Romans 5:6 (KJV) For when we were yet without strength, in due time Christ died for the ungodly. Romans 5:7 (KJV) For scarcely for a righteous man will one die: yet peradventure for a good man some would even dare to die. Romans 5:8 (KJV) But God commendeth his love toward us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us. Romans 5:9 (KJV) Much more then, being now justified by his blood, we shall be saved from wrath through him. Romans 5:10 (KJV) For if, when we were enemies, we were reconciled to God by the death of his Son, much more, being reconciled, we shall be saved by his life. Romans 5:11 (KJV) And not only so, but we also joy in God through our Lord Jesus Christ, by whom we have now received the atonement.
Matthew 6:33-AV But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you.
Isaiah 55:6-AV Seek ye the LORD while he may be found, call ye upon him while he is near: Isaiah 55:7-AV Let the wicked forsake his way, and the unrighteous man his thoughts: and let him return unto the LORD, and he will have mercy upon him; and to our God, for he will abundantly pardon.
The Bearer's Of The "Mind Sword"
