Does Husbands Knows When They Had Unfaithful Mate
By Dr. James. A McBean D.Th., MCC
Copyright © 2008 Library of Congress
Washington.D.C.20559
A man and his best friend were having lunch, accompany by his wife and his son. The eight years old son shouted out. “I know who I resemble; I resemble my daddy’s best friend, look! We had the same red hair” Every body around the table suddenly saw what the child was saying. His biological father is really his father best friend. For century women been impregnated by their husbands best friends. However, since the DNA test comes on the seen. Many a married women find themselves in hot water. Men not getting married again without having blood test and they are not taking a child again until they first do a DNA test to confirm the woman’s claim.
Yes! Husband knows but sometime they cannot do any thing about it. Some of them fall back into denials. For example, if the man has more than one child with the woman, the child support and wage garnishment will kill him, so it better he stayed and rides it out until the child reach certain age. By them, the woman gets pregnant again, which nailed him down even more. Sometime the man is waiting for green card. Sometime the husband is waiting for her to come down with some great sickness, like one pastor’s wife I saw in the hospital. She gets the disease but the husband is ok. Since she is prostituting herself and he found out, he keep quit about it and keep her as his own private prostitute until he can replace her. When sickness of such kind moves her out, he does not need to pay alimony. Sometime the husband is waiting to know whom the man is to have him kill. So being tight lips about it, is a smart decision. Talking to the woman about it is not going to make her change. It will only make her smarter.
Every trick that a woman has, husband know it. Married women who are having affair always end up getting hurt, by lovers. One woman specializes in dealing with old men. She told my uncle in laws that an old man surprise her and mash her up real bad. One woman told me she had to go to the hospital when it was over.
When broken heart does come about?
Before we go on, I like readers to know how I assemble my information. I was doing an article. Every man I came across I questioned them. I ask “The last time you get in a fight, did that person bother you again”? They all say “no” “We became friends after that fight” Therefore, I arrive at the conclusion that aggression seem to pay off. One boy harassed me for six months none stop finally the it end in a bloody fight, he was disembowels in the process and the aggression stops. If I did take him down the first day I would not need to suffer for six months.
I was doing a book titled “How to know when your mate is having an affair” I rode the busses and trains. Every person I sit beside I asked them their input.
HOW WOMEN SAY THEY FOUND OUT.
One lady told me that what tip her of that her husband was having an affair, is that, he came home with his under wear turn back way and that was no how he left home. She begins to pay attention to his under wear when he came home. The other time he came home with his under wear bloody. Finally, she steps up her watching and caught him.
HOW MEN SAY THEY KNOW SOMETHING WAS WRONG.
The first things that give the man the indication are the woman constant refusal to have sex. The second things that give the man the indication is the medication that she is taking. The third thing is the woman friends told on her. The forth things is a sore vagina, and constant infections.
Women are more easily caught than men are. Since women are over confidence, they leave a trail of evidence a mile long. One lady told me that when she ready to do her thing she call her husband on his job phone, if he is at work then he cannot be any where near the home. Therefore, the lesson here is, if the man’s cell is working yet he receives a call from his wife on his job phone he knows something is going down. Other thing men say. A week or two before the woman leave on her vacation she stop having sex. On her return, the vaginal orifice is redder than normal. The Labia minora is battered this is another sure sign.
Another sign is that the woman worried about being watched. If you are living right, you have no need to be worried about who is watching. When the husband is having a strong doubt, which he just cannot shake off even though he tries. Sometime his doubts are correct. When the female is living above her means and above her husband means. Where is the money coming from? When the female is running two or three hands of partners (Pools) at one time, where is the money coming from.
CONTINUALLY PICKING A FIGHT AS SOON AS SHE CAME HOME.
I heard one woman telling her friend how to kill the mood when she wants to refuse sexual intercourse with her husband. (As, soon as she step in the house. She first started an argument.) “Why the house so hot?” “You are so cheep that you are afraid to turn on the air condition” If she came in and find the man home and the air condition is working, she can use that also to start a argument. “ It is you alone home, why not just open the widows instead of using up all the electricity”? The reason for this is she was out with boy friends and now has nothing left to give to the man. Therefore, before he tries to come on to her she first find a way to spoil his mood, and that will keep him at bay for another two days. Giving her the chance to recuperate from that ruff sex she got. Do not buy women for fool.
THE WIFE’S BOY FRIENDS SHOW IT UP.
I went into a store to talk to a woman friend of mine. An eighteen-year-old boy came in, and the way the boy acts. When he left the lady confess to me and say “ It is not good to have affair with little boy, because the way he came in here and act, putting his hands in my hair, was a big give away” Another give away that a woman is having an affair is when she continue being mad at the man.
CONTINUATION OF ILL FEELINGS.
Sirach 7:26. If you have a wife, let her not seem odious to you; but where there is ill feelings, trust her not. The New American Bible. Saint Joseph Edition. .) The New American Bible. Saint Joseph Edition. Catholic book publishing company
When there is no mutual love.
Sirach 25: 1. (With three things, I am delighted, for they are pleasing to the Lord and to men: Harmony among brethren, friendship among neighbors, and mutual love of husband and wife.)
The New American Bible. Saint Joseph Edition. Catholic book publishing company
If she never indicates sex, and is, more like a brush aside person is because something is just not right.
One man told me that every time certain man drove by him, the way the man look at him tell him that something was wrong. He later found out that the man is his wife boy friend. At the time he was telling me the man drove, pass us with the same man wife beside him. They both laughing as they drove by us. Another way is the woman always tired when bedtime came. As he came by her, she pretends to be sick.
THE WOMAN’S LADY FRIENDS TOLD ON HER.
The primary way men know that their wives are having affairs, is. The wives women friends always told on them. Another big give away is. The company of women that a man’s wife hangs out with, will always give the indication of what she is up to. Just by observing the qualities of women and how they are behaving. We have heard the proverbs “Birds of one feather flocked together” or “Dogs of the same kind lap their tails together”
WE EXPECT TOO MUCH FROM SINFUL PEOPLE.
Broken heart comes about when one is being let down, disappointed and have their feelings insulted. This happen because we want faithfulness from other people. Because we had big expectation upon people. Just look around you on the job, you will see affair going on right out there in the open daily.
SOMETIME ONLY JESUS CAN HELP US
Acts 4:12 (KJV)Neither is there salvation in any other: for there is none other name under heaven given among men, whereby we must be saved.
Romans 5:6 (KJV) For when we were yet without strength, in due time Christ died for the ungodly. Romans 5:7 (KJV) For scarcely for a righteous man will one die: yet peradventure for a good man some would even dare to die. Romans 5:8 (KJV) But God commendeth his love toward us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us. Romans 5:9 (KJV) Much more then, being now justified by his blood, we shall be saved from wrath through him. Romans 5:10 (KJV) For if, when we were enemies, we were reconciled to God by the death of his Son, much more, being reconciled, we shall be saved by his life. Romans 5:11 (KJV) And not only so, but we also joy in God through our Lord Jesus Christ, by whom we have now received the atonement.
Matthew 6:33-AV But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you.
Isaiah 55:6-AV Seek ye the LORD while he may be found, call ye upon him while he is near: Isaiah 55:7-AV Let the wicked forsake his way, and the unrighteous man his thoughts: and let him return unto the LORD, and he will have mercy upon him; and to our God, for he will abundantly pardon.
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